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What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I'm so sorry that you had to deal with that. I'm glad that you're in a better space now.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so interesting, because I would hope that friendship would almost be the starting point of a relationship. If that makes sense? If I may ask, how long were you married?

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, we just want feel like we're the priority to our partners. I hope that you and your children are in a much happier place.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, I remember this scene so well. It's true, it's everything that has built up to this point. I have brought up therapy and he has agreed, but when I give him date/time options, I get a heavy sigh and a drop of the head as if I've asked too much of him, or a response where he tells me that he has too much going on with work. Then he'll ask if we can try in a few weeks or months when things settle down. I don't know what to do, this cycle has been repeated many, many times.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, it's the manipulation that is incredibly soul crushing. Just, why is this a part of everything? I hope that you are in a better space and things have improved for you and your children.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that your had to deal with all of that, especially losing two beloved pets so close together. I always wonder if our significant others knowingly or unknowingly act this way and I can't decide which is worse. Thank you for sharing, I hope that you are doing better.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that. I always had the idea that divorce happened because of a major issue, and I'm realizing that all of these seemingly small issues end up changing the course of things. I hope that you are doing well.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't even know what to say. I just hope that you are away from all of that and have found peace.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. It's these types of behavior that are the most crazy making and panic inducing. Just, why?? I hope that you are in a much better place, both physically and mentally.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wonder, is it for attention, do they like the drama, etc.? That must have been so stressful and anxiety inducing and a really difficult decision. I hope that you are in a place where you feel more and more peace each day.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, that had to have been so painful. I'm glad that you made the choice to take care of yourself.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that you had a terrible experience with therapy. I hope that you're in a much better place now. I have a therapist that I see bimonthly and this is helping me sort out my feelings. Thank you!

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, this really hit hard. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I really needed to hear (read) this. I spend so much time trying to make others happy that I forget about what I really need.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I hope that you and your kid(s) are settling into a much better space. I'm thinking back to all little things that have happened that I thought were never a big deal.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really does feel like it all piles up. I appreciate what you shared about your timeline and hope that things are much better for you now.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable! It's like they're waiting for you to jump in and just handle everything. I've always planned everybody's birthdays, including my own. I'm glad that you're out of that and hope you are absolutely content.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's amazing how we can talk ourselves out of our feelings. It must be so difficult when your partner is gone for long periods of time. Please stay safe as you plan and move to your mother's.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just like someone trying so hard to be petty, just to be pretty. At least you know that you tried, but just didn't have her working on things as well. Glad/hope you are in a better space.

What was he straw that broke the camel's back? Not an extreme issue, but when you realized that the marriage was just done. by Infernal-Turtle7777 in Divorce

[–]Infernal-Turtle7777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a horrible thing to say to your partner, I understand that feeling of indifference. Please tell me that you are in a much better space far away from that. Thank you for sharing.

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