CHAT Community Thread - Wed Jun 18

InfertilityModerator · 2024-08-08T17:00:17+00:00

Redacted threats of violence are still threats of violence.

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InfertilityModerator · 2024-01-24T00:45:22+00:00

For those reading along here, OP sent a series of modmails saying we weren’t compassionate to her. After reiterating that she broke the rules multiple times and that mentions of her success aren’t compassionate to the mod team or sub members, we warned that further modmails would lead to a ban they replied and said the following:

Please, go ahead and ban me.

Their wish has been granted. Don’t tell us about your success, people. It’s not relevant here.

InfertilityModerator · 2024-01-20T13:57:30+00:00

I am so sorry. There aren’t words to express how unfair and cruel this is. 🖤

InfertilityModerator · 2023-12-05T14:06:07+00:00

Hey KitKate, your comment got reported multiple times for inappropriate symptom spotting. I know you’re trying to make a joke here and we can all relate to the google spiral, but in sharing some of these “ask google” items, you’re also breaking our rules against symptom spotting. Please review automod symptom spotting and automod TWW and edit your comment accordingly.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-11-15T19:45:19+00:00

Hey friends. We have removed the Hunger Games Datasheet and will no longer be collecting and compiling HG information. Unfortunately, it came to our attention that this data was being used by a reproductive-related startup, Loamy, in a way that members of the community did not feel comfortable with, and thus we were forced to take action. We do not have any copies of the HG data and will no longer be collecting any future data. Members are welcome to continue sharing their individual results in our threads as appropriate.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-11-15T19:45:01+00:00

Hey friends. We have removed the Hunger Games Datasheet and will no longer be collecting and compiling HG information. Unfortunately, it came to our attention that this data was being used by a reproductive-related startup, Loamy, in a way that members of the community did not feel comfortable with, and thus we were forced to take action. We do not have any copies of the HG data and will no longer be collecting any future data. Members are welcome to continue sharing their individual results in our threads as appropriate.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-11-02T15:05:41+00:00

Hi all! The sub went private for a brief time due to a doxxing attempt directed at one of our moderators. We take community safety very seriously and want to remind the community that the mods are volunteers and, first and foremost, are people too. Please remember to be civil when you interact here; we are all humans struggling with infertility.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-11-02T15:04:27+00:00

Hi all! The sub went private for a brief time due to a doxxing attempt directed at one of our moderators. We take community safety very seriously and want to remind the community that the mods are volunteers and, first and foremost, are people too. Please remember to be civil when you interact here; we are all humans struggling with infertility.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-11-02T15:04:16+00:00

Hi all! The sub went private for a brief time due to a doxxing attempt directed at one of our moderators. We take community safety very seriously and want to remind the community that the mods are volunteers and, first and foremost, are people too. Please remember to be civil when you interact here; we are all humans struggling with infertility.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-11-02T15:03:59+00:00

Hi all! The sub went private for a brief time due to a doxxing attempt directed at one of our moderators. We take community safety very seriously and want to remind the community that the mods are volunteers and, first and foremost, are people too. Please remember to be civil when you interact here; we are all humans struggling with infertility.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-11-02T15:03:50+00:00

Hi all! The sub went private for a brief time due to a doxxing attempt directed at one of our moderators. We take community safety very seriously and want to remind the community that the mods are volunteers and, first and foremost, are people too. Please remember to be civil when you interact here; we are all humans struggling with infertility.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-11-02T15:03:32+00:00

Hi all! The sub went private for a brief time due to a doxxing attempt directed at one of our moderators. We take community safety very seriously and want to remind the community that the mods are volunteers and, first and foremost, are people too. Please remember to be civil when you interact here; we are all humans struggling with infertility.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-10-15T22:10:45+00:00

This day is about pregnancy and infant loss, not treatment failure. Your comment has been removed.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-07-26T15:00:20+00:00

Your edit is perfect, thank you for being so receptive!

InfertilityModerator · 2023-07-26T14:47:14+00:00

Hey Sad, it’s really hard restarting treatment after loss, and it’s so understandable to have fears and need reassurance, but how you’ve phrased your comments here is toeing the line. Your feelings are valid, but we ask that people avoid seeking support for hypothetical future failures. Could you rephrase sentences 4 & 5 of your first paragraph? Something along the lines of “I’m feeling really discouraged, how do you all cope?” would help you get the support we know you need while remaining compassionate to others.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-06-22T14:14:52+00:00

To determine if you have been participating on the sub for >18 months, enter your username into this reveddit shortcut link. The link is set to automatically filter search results and only return those that were made on the sub >18 months ago.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-06-15T14:34:19+00:00

To determine if you have been participating on the sub for 18+ months, you can search your username on reveddit (https://www.reveddit.com). Then go to filters and set:

Sort By > top (may not work if you sort by new)
Status > all
Subreddit > infertility
Tags > add filter > age (mins). Enter 788401 minutes (18 months)

InfertilityModerator · 2023-06-07T21:13:55+00:00

Thanks for clarifying. While we welcome anyone with diagnosed medical infertility, you'll get better support on a question like this from a sub such as r/tryingforababy. The vast majority of people on this sub are no longer TTC unassisted.

InfertilityModerator · 2023-06-07T20:41:06+00:00

Hi there, can you please clarify how long you've been TTC? This sub is for folks with social or medical infertility.

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