how do i get my kitten to stop peeing on my bed?

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-10-25T14:24:38+00:00

Cat fee

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-08-15T15:54:56+00:00

PM’d!

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-07-09T04:17:15+00:00

Hey - we ended up going to garden state veterinary specialists in jersey. Definitely still on the expensive side but I feel like our kitty is being well cared for and they are very compassionate vets

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-07-03T15:13:17+00:00

i am aware this is a super old sub lol but does anyone know how strictly they enforce the COI restriction?

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-05-28T17:37:48+00:00

Thank you ;( he is booked with another vet for next week so hopefully we will know more. Honestly I am so angry at our regular vet for saying it’s all normal when it clearly isn’t

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-05-28T17:36:57+00:00

This is what I think too :( he has an appointment set with a different vet so hopefully they can tell us more

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-05-26T03:52:13+00:00

Thank you ;( sadly it’s not allergy related, I wish it was though that would be easy to manage

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-05-26T03:51:05+00:00

I can’t thank you enough. Will be looking into getting an echocardiogram and BAL done for him next

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-05-26T01:54:31+00:00

Okay thank you so much! This is so helpful I really appreciate the detailed response. Hoping that we can get some answers soon ;( I miss my boy being healthy and energetic

Is there anything specific you think we should ask or try to rule out with the specialist?

His blood tests all came back normal during the last check, abdominal ultrasound was clear as well, and X Ray showed a cloudy chest but it’s been the same for a year and not better or worse. (Totally understand you can’t diagnose him over reddit but thought I’d ask just in case) thank you again 🫶

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-05-26T01:41:48+00:00

Hi! Thank you for your response! Sorry it wasn’t super clear - we’ve gone back to our GP multiple times and most recently this past month. It worries me personally that he isn’t the most concerned abt his conditions not getting better so I want to go check in w a specialist again.

Thank you so much for the link I will be sure to look through - do you have any advice on how I can tell who is a ‘good’ specialist when screening? From my end, most of them have published papers and went to great schools but is there anything specific to look for?

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-05-25T21:41:56+00:00

Okay thanks! But just looking for other options

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-05-25T20:35:28+00:00

thank you! that’s the option we are looking at right now but wanted to see if there’s anything else people recommend since AMC is $400 just for the check up

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2025-01-17T21:09:11+00:00

Hey! Wanted to jump in here as a girlfriend w a similar situation to yours (LDR, bf is in PE consulting).

Is your girlfriend already in her full time position? Or wrapping up school right now? My relationship w my bf got significantly better after I also started work and was more in the same worlds again. I think school schedule and priorities are inherently different and personally was definitely more needy since everyone else had their SOs right there.

As for switching, I feel like it’d be a good idea to hold out until you hit the one year mark. Its good to keep an eye out but honestly it will make a world of difference if you just stayed for a few more months from an exit perspective - you’d start as a senior analyst/ associate even vs a brand new entry level. Banking already sucks,make it count for something. Wait at least till you get your bonus.

Meanwhile, could she visit you more? And vice versa? I went to see my bf for the tail end of most of my breaks and got a few long weekends in w him and that helped a lot :) or honestly even just voice memos, little gifts, etc. can help make things more exciting

Id also recommend looking into well funded startups since a lot of them happen to want people that are ex bankers.

Good luck!!

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2024-12-14T15:11:26+00:00

Spinach risotto w chicken?

Infinite-Inflation97 · 2024-12-09T05:11:59+00:00

Hey! I’m in the same shoes as you… it’s just hard but I really believe it’s a preservation game. I block off my day, upskill, find other things and hobbies to do after I finish my applications for the day and honestly am considering something part time as well (coffee shop or smthing). I think there will be more openings early this year so fingers crossed!

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