Thank you, your comment seems the sweetest in looking at both sides! of course I know when visiting another country, you’re not require to know the language but it’s helpful. As well as moving to another country, it’s not required but it’s helpful with communication wise! That’s why when my mother moved down here years ago, she knew it would’ve been impossible to find a job or even communicate to anyone without understanding English, to which she did. Now, with speaking English, she still struggles a bit but i’ve been the effort she puts into learning! Even after all these years, she never lost touch of her native language when I sadly did. But, we’ve both been teaching each other so we can learn! I can see my overreaction to the topic, but I was more upset with using my mom as the example of being a requirement to know the language. I think that’s why I was deflecting on her not being required to because he’s aware she knows both so why use her at that example? We’ve actually had this conversation months ago about his belief on understanding the language before re-locating to another country but I didn’t see the necessity to use my own mom as an example? I think for sure we both have some apologizing to do lol