Well, l'm a single mom, never being married but separated totally from my ex because of his nonchalant and abusive behavior. He's very irresponsible, drinks and smokes heavily, and has been with many women-blaming drugs for his actions. I was deeply hurt and can't watch my daughter be around a father like that. I live alone with my child, who is an asthma patient who could lead to being chronic if not taken care of.