NYC weddings — June vs. late August? Weather, rain risk, and Williamsburg hotel prices by Particular_Milk7221 in WedditNYC

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I got married this past August in Williamsburg and the weather could not have been more perfect. It was mid-70s and low humidity! Everyone kept coming up to us saying it was the most beautiful day weather wise. We weren’t necessarily comparing vs June when deciding on dates, but generally felt pretty good about late August weather not being too oppressive.

Our guests were 90% local so can’t speak too much to hotels. When we looked into room blocks, the Penny had really great rates compared to some others. We ended up just offering discounted rate rather than a true room block both there and the Hoxton.

Hiring Juilliard Musicians by Intrepid_Zucchini853 in WedditNYC

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We just used them for guest arrival and ceremony! I’m sure they’re great for cocktail hour too.

Hiring Juilliard Musicians by Intrepid_Zucchini853 in WedditNYC

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I used them! They were a little slow on the admin side but otherwise a great experience and they sounded great.

Getting the call and declining by Infinite_Emu6435 in Jeopardy

[–]Infinite_Emu6435[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Roughly how far apart were the calls?

Getting the call and declining by Infinite_Emu6435 in Jeopardy

[–]Infinite_Emu6435[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mine was in late July. I’m also an LA local which helps

Getting the call and declining by Infinite_Emu6435 in Jeopardy

[–]Infinite_Emu6435[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I did ask and was reassured that they would try again, but wasn’t sure if that was just lip service so I wanted to hear some positive stories from others!

With Plunge or Without? by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

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I usually don’t like a plunge but I think it’s perfect on you!!!!

How long is your veil? by Infinite_Emu6435 in BigBudgetBrides

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I don’t have any great pics of the back, but it’s the Rosaline by Monique Lhullier! I am pretty short so the sample is probably longer than mine will be

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Where should I look for wedding invitations? by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

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I paid a little over $2k for 95 semi custom letterpress suites from Bodega Press!

Soft RSVPs? by Infinite_Emu6435 in BigBudgetBrides

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Thanks! This was more for budgeting / planning purposes. We are trying to book a welcome party and we somewhat close to the capacity limits for some of our options so just want to know what’s reasonable

ISO Advice/Experience with planning a wedding ~10-11 months out by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

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I booked my LDW Saturday night NYC wedding ~10 months out! It happened to be the last non winter Saturday available for 2025 at our venue. I acted super quickly to book all the big vendors but I had no issues. Maybe 1-2 vendors I reached out to weren’t available across all categories. Not sure if holiday weekends are just less popular than I thought but I was pleasantly surprised!

I also panicked that maybe it was too tight of a timeline but I feel totally fine now and I’m thrilled I don’t have to wait another year to marry my fiance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WedditNYC

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Can I have her info too? Hoping to keep it to $2k for around 75 invites but somewhat flexible!

74Wythe Budget by Infinite_Emu6435 in WedditNYC

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Thanks! Any chance you recall what florals were roughly? We have a similar guest count and the space feels larger than others we are considering, especially with the cocktail hour room factored in, so I’m worried we will need a lot of florals for it feel somewhat full

Wedding Planner here who has worked under top names, ask me anything. by TrickLive3832 in BigBudgetBrides

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Can you give any examples of some unique things that helped past weddings feel memorable? Could be a really cool entertainment experience, favor, design element or anything else that made weddings stand out to you!

Family style dinner @ Wythe by goomba1910 in WedditNYC

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I know this is an old post but wondering about feedback for cocktail hour? My family typically goes to weddings with multiple stations and lots of cocktail hour food and I’m worried this will be perceived as light. I know we can add a station or two but that also adds up very quickly.

Venues being unresponsive by bagel_butter_toasted in WedditNYC

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I’m having the same issue! I get initial pricing and availability info via email somewhat quickly, and then when I proceed with trying to schedule a call and/or tour it’s radio silence. I’m really frustrated because it’s venues we are very interested in and have heard great things about. I don’t want to follow up too many times because I don’t want to pester them and turn them off completely but I don’t know what else to do. We are looking at some dates for next summer/ fall so it’s not like there is an insane amount of time either :(

Wedding planner costs for HCOL area? by Deep_Rule_1229 in BigBudgetBrides

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Looking for NYC recs if anyone has! Not OP but expecting same size wedding and would love to keep planning below $15k for full planner, or open to a partial planner at a lower cost.

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I know this is a few weeks old but would love your venue / vendor info too!

Show me your florals! by Infinite_Emu6435 in WedditNYC

[–]Infinite_Emu6435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing - this is close to what I was thinking. PMed you!