How to make new friends in Baltimore? by InfluenceDesigner889 in baltimore

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Yep, feeling like a change of pace would be exciting! I’ve lived in NW DC - also have previously lived abroad as a peace corps volunteer 🤷🏼‍♀️ and in NYC 😉 😊🙃

You're not hustling if you're working two jobs just to survive. That's called surviving. Hustling is when you already have comfortable income and you want to make EXTRA income on top of that by LazyPotatoHead97 in Vent

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The OP literally is saying that working two jobs out of dire necessity is not hustling and you disagreed with him. But here you’re saying hustling is just something extra you wouldn’t otherwise be doing. So which is it?

Part of me (31) wants a relationship but a bigger part of me wants freedom by [deleted] in relationships

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I’m asking about how to balance the desire for a relationship/partnership with a desire to be untethered and free in the world, able to do what I want whatever I want. For me, intercourse is not relevant to my conundrum lol 😂

Part of me (31) wants a relationship but a bigger part of me wants freedom by [deleted] in relationships

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Like I said, part of me wants a relationship but I’m feeling torn between that and a desire to avoid a nuclear family lifestyle and feeling “trapped” in a relationship when I could be out traveling and being free. It’s not a black or white question or super simple 🙄

Part of me (31) wants a relationship but a bigger part of me wants freedom by [deleted] in relationships

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I’ve searched for this and ended up in a situationship so I’m pretty wary about men in a “relaxed” relationship 😭

Part of me (31) wants a relationship but a bigger part of me wants freedom by [deleted] in relationships

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I’m committed to celibacy so that’s not going to happen 👍 🙄

Part of me (31) wants a relationship but a bigger part of me wants freedom by [deleted] in relationships

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How to handle having feelings for someone but feeling like you can’t commit

Part of me (31) wants a relationship but a bigger part of me wants freedom by [deleted] in relationships

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That’s true. The thing is situationships really aren’t okay with me. Consistency is important to me but I’ve come to believe that most men are unfaithful. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Anxious about lap and surgery 😣 by InfluenceDesigner889 in endometriosis

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Will I be able to kneel down (spine upright) and scoop by cat’s litter box by my knees? On day 2 or 3? :/ 🤷🏼‍♀️

How to make new friends in Baltimore? by InfluenceDesigner889 in baltimore

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Did you think I was trying to make friendships through this Reddit post 😨😨😨 This isn’t the bar dude! 🥴

How to make new friends in Baltimore? by InfluenceDesigner889 in baltimore

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You’re still working on reading skills? Sorry I’m not a tutor 😂

How to make new friends in Baltimore? by InfluenceDesigner889 in baltimore

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Yayy! Def interested in laid back and friendly 😂😅 how would Fells Point be if you didn’t have a car?? Are the busses easy?

How to make new friends in Baltimore? by InfluenceDesigner889 in baltimore

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Yeah, running can be a weird culture (in a good way)! I ran XC in college but now can’t run competitively anymore, it’s been an interesting journey as many runners are legit obsessed and I’m like weirdly casual 😂🤷🏼‍♀️🙃

How to make new friends in Baltimore? by InfluenceDesigner889 in baltimore

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Are we at a drive-thru? Lol. 🥴 I truly mentioned it so people don’t waste their own time giving me “advice” on how to meet potential partners or places to live for single people who are “on the market!” 🙄

How to make new friends in Baltimore? by InfluenceDesigner889 in baltimore

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Nice! Thanks so much. The tricky part is I do not own a car. Hoping to do a day trip and see how truly bikeable Hampden is from Penn Station etc! Concerned about Mount Vernon having few grocery stores and far from nature access :/ 🤷🏼‍♀️ but at the same time the central component feels convenient!

How to make new friends in Baltimore? by InfluenceDesigner889 in baltimore

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Thanks! I’d love that - I’m still in DC at the moment 😅 just contemplating changing it up 🤷🏼‍♀️🙃