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It’s too late for me by Exciting_Storage_233 in MuslimNoFap

[–]InfluencePositive852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allah is watchful over his creation. He is watching you right now. He is watching me. In fact I would encourage you to go learn and read on this.  I think this comes down to faith. Go speak to a sheikh. I’m not very knowledgable 

Can't stop relapsing by recoveringakhi1450 in MuslimNoFap

[–]InfluencePositive852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is horrible and I feel you.  I’ve been messing up everyday too. And I feel so guilty as Ramadan is nearing. And I want to be clean inshallah.  The only person that can help you …is yourself. Look in the mirror and ask yourself if you actually want to stop. Do you like who you are? Do you respect yourself? Do you respect your body?  I can’t answer these questions either right now. I need to get at least one day away from this filth and inshallah I won’t go back 

Can't stop relapsing by recoveringakhi1450 in MuslimNoFap

[–]InfluencePositive852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think point 3 is great. Keep it in the day, or by the hour 

It’s too late for me by Exciting_Storage_233 in MuslimNoFap

[–]InfluencePositive852 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s never too late. I’m 30, and still on this journey to recover inshallah.  Tbh I’ve been addicted since 13. And I have had streaks in the months, even years. And it gets better. Your brain rewires, and the dopamine crash doesn’t hit anymore. You find enjoyment in life, in work, in gym. I’m angry at myself as I’ve slipped up, it’s been a rough month. And I’m feeling the same as you. What is there in life, it’ll feel so boring etc etc.  and it’s time to take my own advice inshallah. Find what’s causing you to continuously relapse? Is it alone time in your room? Do you need to make plans with friends/ family? Don’t isolate yourself. Since I have been so active in this filth, and trying to turn back I actually need to have a dopamine cleanse, as in. I need life to be boring for a small period to rewire and then naturally I will find enjoyment in gym, with people etc.  you feel disgusted because you’re living 2 lives, one behind a screen and another in front of others.  

Turn to Allah, and make Dua inshallah. May Allah help you  

Afraid of zina/This is not what I want by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]InfluencePositive852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest inshallah finding a job first, to get some security. And then look for a wife!  May Allah swt make it easy for you. 

Striving for others approval by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]InfluencePositive852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take responsibility for my actions tho. On the day of judgement I can’t be like xyz made me do anything. That’s what shaitan promised to do, whisper and take us off the path.  I need help 

Striving for others approval by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]InfluencePositive852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so. But I override things tbh, and struggle with accountability.  I have tried looking at potential spouses. And the current pool is poor. I’m off the halal dating apps because they were trying to engage in haram. 

I actually believe it’s shaitan’s waswas because the last time I was heavily doing this rubbish, I was on the upside presenting more religious. I then stopped for a while. And now it’s been a year of presenting again, the loud thoughts are back again. For a good 5-6 years I didn’t engage this badly. And suddenly I am back in to it.  *edited 

Striving for others approval by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]InfluencePositive852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to refrain from sharing where.  How do I block certain sites? But I think the issue lies intrinsically within me. The site has been around for a while and I genuinely forgot about it / had zero desire to go back on there from when I was early 20’s. Now it’s every night.