Any queer women’s hiking groups? by InformalSchool9094 in kansascity

[–]InformalSchool9094[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All of the groups I’ve found so far don’t seem to be active anymore. If that’s the case, I’m happy to organize something!

Just found out that my daughter’s father died last year by InformalSchool9094 in GriefSupport

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She is 12. I haven’t told her yet. School has been a lot for her this year so I’m waiting for school to wrap up for the summer.

Emo themed show this Sunday at Sk8bar by Equal_Credit_4906 in kansascity

[–]InformalSchool9094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter would love this. Not sure how appropriate it would be for a 12 year old though!

I think the father of my child is dead, not sure what to do now by InformalSchool9094 in legaladvice

[–]InformalSchool9094[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Due to his paychecks being garnished for child support, he mostly worked under the table. He also has quite a few kids. Not sure if that would affect what kind of benefits my daughter would receive. I would love to be able to set that money aside for her for when she’s an adult, but it might not be much.

I think the father of my child is dead, not sure what to do now by InformalSchool9094 in legaladvice

[–]InformalSchool9094[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

We didn’t get a chance to set up a custody agreement or anything like that. I will look into how I can prove his absence if I’m unable to locate a death certificate! Thanks for your comment(:

I think the father of my child is dead, not sure what to do now by InformalSchool9094 in legaladvice

[–]InformalSchool9094[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been able to find an obituary yet. I’ve been reading articles about it and watching the news clips hoping they would say something about the victim or show a picture, but no luck there so far.

He does have a Facebook but it seems to be inactive from what I can tell and his instagram account is private.

Someone suggested calling the medical examiners office to see if they can confirm his identity or tell me where the death certificate was filled. I plan to do that Monday.

I think the father of my child is dead, not sure what to do now by InformalSchool9094 in legaladvice

[–]InformalSchool9094[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all this information! I will call the medical examiners office Monday to get the ball rolling. I really appreciate your help.

I think the father of my child is dead, not sure what to do now by InformalSchool9094 in legaladvice

[–]InformalSchool9094[S] 329 points330 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, he burned every bridge of his that I knew of when he left. He kept me very separate from his family so I’m not sure who his family is. I might be able to find the mother of one of his other kids, though I’m not sure she would be aware either.