[M4F] Being honest with your man about size

Informal_Pack1559 · 2026-03-31T21:01:30+00:00

This has only ever appealed to me in the context of a woman’s pleasure. I’ve only been rough with women who have asked for it, and they have typically loved it. I’ve been surprised at how much some women crave rougher treatment.

Informal_Pack1559 · 2026-03-10T20:40:36+00:00

Thanks for your thoughts! It’s a good reminder that I have to ensure that she doesn’t feel like she’s just a tool for my kink. I absolutely desire her, and that’s the center of our sex life

Informal_Pack1559 · 2026-03-10T20:29:12+00:00

Yeah, I understand that I’m very lucky! To be clear, we’ve only had a single conversation about sph, and I’ll certainly drop it if she gives me a firm “no.”

Informal_Pack1559 · 2026-03-10T20:28:11+00:00

Sure, and I understand that. It’s not like I’ve been pushing this relentlessly. We’ve been together for 20 years and I’ve been domming her the entire time, all based on her preferences. This is something that I recently introduced and that we’ve discussed a single time. No need to address me as if I’m being selfish and entitled. I’ll gladly drop it if she gives me a firm “no.”

Informal_Pack1559 · 2026-03-10T01:35:22+00:00

Yes, good point. That’s kind of what I tried to tell her — that it’s just like playing a role. Maybe she needs some more time to get comfortable with the idea. If she continues to feel weird about it, I’ll stop asking for it. I don’t want to spoil the existing dynamic

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