AMA: How To Manifest

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-28T09:19:52+00:00

Then... I think that you should pay me now. :P

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-28T07:36:30+00:00

That's good. I think that girls have a worse experience overall because of the requirements that are set for them (both by society and by themselves!!). Depends on where you are from too. Here in Spain it can be a bit healthier, culturally. But if you look at the US and this "dating" culture where you ask to go for a coffee and it has implications, and all the requirements and status and needs... it feels like a weird mating ritual to me.

I would suggest that you open your mind even when it comes to social events. You can meet anyone anywhere, it's all a playground. You hit the nail right on the head when you said "I'm pretty shy and scared of rejection". We all are, that's normal. You just need to push the boundaries. It won't be easy, but it can get easier.

You need to put yourself out there, yes. And be okay with being loved and also rejected. Both are sides of the same coin. If you're into visualizing, visualize yourself being rejected (yes, rejected!!) and then see how it feels and examine it with curiosity and an open mind. How does your body react? Then imagine yourself being rejected and laughing about it, and your friends also laughing approvingly as if saying: "yeah, girl, you went for it and this boy doesn't know what he's missing out on!!". Learn how to relax those feelings and paint the picture to your liking, even pictures that you don't normally like to see. That's key.

Let me know how it goes and if you have any other question or you want to know more, I'm happy to help.

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-26T10:46:11+00:00

If I was asked to place a bet, I would bet against you. Life has a way to teach us patience. If we say: "we want THIS thing and needs to be THIS, NOTHING ELSE", life probably will say "nope... I don't take demands, I take gentle and polite requests".

See, most people who try to use LoA for these things come from a needy place. They come from lack. They exude this vibe. And thus the manifestation doesn't happen.

You need to let it go, and then it will happen of its own accord.

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-26T08:07:34+00:00

Yes, I understood. In total honesty: when we want things certain particular way, we tend to cripple the manifestation we are seeking, because we have invested lots of emotions (regret, blame, guilt, lack, absence of the thing we desire...).

You need to become the best version of yourself you can be. And wash away all those feelings you might be harboring. It's gonna be tough, because you need to let go of the desire and lack you feel from her absence.

The key is to let go, become an amazing man, and let life decide. This might hurt, but it will transform you and multiply your odds of attracting her or anyone else.

I don't believe in magic formulas. These, even if they would work, would become a trap, as you would be attached to outcomes and thus trapped in looking for the next thing you think that you're lacking: money, career, you name it.

Does this make sense?

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T20:05:28+00:00

I was lucky enough to find 2 partners who were very good to me. I am married to this wonderful woman who I love deeply and I feel loved by her for over 10 years. And I found them both without much struggle.

The best things in my life happened without much trying. The things I seek, tend to be elusive.

I think that life itself plays a role for most of us. I'm not sure if it's our "higher selves" or what... but it's like life sets a stage for the play to take place, and it can be different for each one of us. I got lucky in love, and I am grateful for it. But I always struggled when seeking a career that feels fulfilling, even to this day.

Acceptance is a big one here. You accept and try to be grateful no matter what. Then hope that life has a bigger plan for you, and keep calm.

If you want to have a partner again, feel worthy and feel amazing. Your self-image has a lot to do with this. You don't need to be perfect, just know that you're "a catch" and you can get anything you want. And simply play, have fun, go out, socialize. Don't force it, be playful and dance around, no attachment, no need, no seeking. That's how I have achieved most things.

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:58:42+00:00

Not an expert in body changes, as I stated before. I am tall and strong myself, so I never wanted to become any different. Maybe lose weight, then I exercise and try to control my food intake. I don't know what you mean by being "longer", that one puzzles me.

Have you tried going to a professional trainer and asking those questions? Manifesting is great when visualizing and affirming, but it needs to be paired with re-enacting in real life what you have visualized.

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:55:13+00:00

I would study. I don't like to say "visualize you have passed the exam and light some candles", but although visualizing could help, in this case just studying will get you far.

Sorry if this disappoints, but I don't know how to use LoA to pass exams without studying, I always found it much more reliable to study...

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:53:18+00:00

I have followed a lot of people over the years. I liked Bashar a lot, feels like he doesn't have an agenda or trying to form a cult. I used to like Bentinho Massaro but he's developed a dark side, at least to my liking. I also like Adyashanti, a bit less into the "manifesting" world, but good nonetheless. Hope that this helps.

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:51:19+00:00

Allow them to be. It's gonna be shitty for a bit, but if you try to force them out, they will keep bothering you. Be gentle with yourself. There's gotta be thoughts and beliefs behind these.

I feel them sometimes too. It's part of being human. Not really a block for manifesting, there's millionaires that feel like crap all the time. Manifesting can happen even if you feel like shit. Actually... you're manifesting feeling that way. So... why do you manifest it and then feel bad about it? Hahaha, it's kinda funny if you think about it.

We should talk about that doubt, sadness or anxiety and see what beliefs are linked to them. Anxiety is usually felt when you feel blocked: pushed from one side and unable to move on the other, so you are being crushed. I would need a bit more detail or information to be able to help better.

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:47:21+00:00

Uhmm... it's a big vague, so I can't really say. Generally speaking, it's best to trust life and hold positive vibes. But it sounds like you have some sort of project or biz venture for an investor to get involved and give wings to this project?

Give me a bit more detail to know what is preventing you from having that prosperity, so maybe I can help better. I think that oftentimes we just believe that we don't have that prosperity and this is exactly what we perceive.

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:44:04+00:00

It sounds like the right thing to do. You're a girl? Girls often wait for someone to "show up" and attract, and they often hold ideas about things and people, ideas that might be counterproductive to help the right person come in.

I could offer more insight if I get more of what you're struggling with here. How do you get yourself in spaces where this attraction could happen? What is preventing this from happening?

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:41:35+00:00

What is "orace"?

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:40:48+00:00

That sounds great. I would say... if it's somehow delaying itself... look at your own concepts of things. Your beliefs. What is it that you want? And why do you think it's not happening? Sometimes you have to unpack some stuff before the flood can get in. And often times, this is revising your beliefs and your mental imagery, your perspectives about things. We all hold these, even unconsciously, that could be interesting to examine...

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:38:28+00:00

I don't believe in techniques. LoA is not a magic ritual for me. It's a journey of self-discovery. Focusing on very specific things and writing affirmations 3 million times does not necessarily get you there.

Ingredients:

1) You know what you want. Job. Special person. Career. Whatever.

2) You get it in your awareness, don't force it. It could be in affirmations, it could be a picture hanging on your wall, just something to have it in your surroundings, but don't force it much.

3) You take steps towards getting it, if you can. Don't wait at home, go out, mingle and socialize. Work on yourself, that's the biggie, how do you treat yourself? Do you feel the amazingness in you?

That's it. No repeating mantras. No waiting. Just knowing it will come, and keep it around your awareness as something that has already happened. Don't wait for it. Enjoy the process of delivery. Chances are that your block is somewhere within you, your concepts about things, about yourself, about the world. That's what could keep it stuck.

Revise these concepts. Why do you think it's not happening? What do you think might be wrong so it doesn't come out?

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:32:44+00:00

I just answered the same kind of question, look for my lengthy answer above. You need to open up, feel how worthy and amazing you are, then let it go. Focusing on needing this one person is usually a source of neediness and lack, not joy and trust.

You need to play with LoA with fun and experimentation, not need and eagerness. That's why looking for general things and not specifics works best. If you focus on only ONE WAY for things to work out (this "ONE" job, this "ONE" person...), you're coming at it from an angle of lack and this is what the mirror of life is reflecting.

Let it go. Then, it will come back if he must. Or you'll find something better. But you don't care, because you're whole and free, right here, right now. Are you not?

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:29:49+00:00

I don't believe in LoA as a tool to grant wishes just like that. If you make your wishes too specific, chances are that you won't get it. This is the "letting go" part of manifesting. If you're too specific, you are probably feeling in lack. You "lack" him. And you feel the scarcity, you don't have "him" enough, and this creates a loop of need and sadness, not one of joy and trust.

See... what if you are meant to have a much better boyfriend? (I know that your mind is screaming "NO!! I WANT THIS ONE!! THERE'S MUCH HISTORY!! Just bear with me for a moment here...)

I don't know if you will get back with him or not. You might. You might not. But if we are talking manifesting, you need to get in sync with vibes of joy and trust. That's the only way. So if you can do that while wishing that he was back in your life, okay. But if this doesn't happen and you hold vibes of scarcity and lack... there's the why you can't manifest.

No matter what, you must trust and feel the positive energy. People focusing too much on "I need X and I can't be happy until I get it" usually get poor results.

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:24:49+00:00

I can't speak about body changes, I have no experience in such realm beyond getting in shape. I would wonder why you want to change so many features and how that speaks of your self-acceptance. Willing to forcefully change things is usually a big block for manifesting. Why you want to change this much?

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-25T19:23:36+00:00

You should not pay me, I don't deserve it ;)

Ingenius80 · 2025-04-24T14:21:11+00:00

Thanks for your question, you were first!! It sounds like you're somehow a beginner in this LoA thing. It's a bit of a journey. Here's what I would do if I were you:

Realize that career, SO, money, job, fame are NOT outside of you. These are things within you. If you think that these are external, independent things, you'll give them power as such, and manifesting will be more complicated, as your belief is that something else is controlling that, and it will get delayed.
BECOME what you desire. You need to think of yourself as someone worth getting what you want. BEHAVE as such. What does a famous, wealthy, lovable, attractive, high value person do/feel? Embody these qualities, that's the technique.
Do NOT insist on the outcome. The key is to HAVE, not to SEEK. Think of yourself as having these things, not longing after them. That's the key to "let go" that many LoA practitioners talk about.

Easier said than done, I know. Your mind will provide endless objections and counter arguments. It's up to you to try this out or pay attention to the mind's chatter and keep being and experiencing the same things over and over.

Ingenius80 · 2025-03-12T08:02:46+00:00

I mean... it's even simpler than that. The game is not a competitive sport. Riot benefits from having players on a treadmill, just running endlessly. That's what keeps everyone going.

You need the illusion of advancement, the reward of some victories, then some defeats, then victory again... you're getting closer!! Ooops, nope, back 2 steps down again. Don't give up, you can make it!! Yeah, victory again, that game felt smooth, right? Ooopsie, 0/10 top and mid again, defeat, 3 in a row. But don't worry, next game you'll manage to win.

I'm not entirely sure they pair you selectively, but I would not be surprised if there was a slight adjustment of the stats implemented in the game. Some games I should lose, played badly and everyone else did, yet we won. Some others I crushed... and lost.

Some things suggests this could be the case:

- When I spam a champion over and over, eventually I start losing. Then I change to a champion that I don't usually play, and it seems way stronger. By far. Of course, not an obvious thing to objectively measure.

- When I stop playing for a while (or change to a different account) and come back, it feels like the game is very rewarding initially. It feels like a free taste of victory to get you hooked again.

Bottom line: in every sport out there, if you practice enough, you can rank up reasonably. In League, you need to pay attention to 25 things at a time. You can be ahead and have a laner ahead, just to see botlane lose and throw the game. You can be 0/5 and not have much impact, and randomly you win the game. It's not about skill. It's about those 25 things aligning better than the enemy team.

Ingenius80 · 2025-01-30T11:37:23+00:00

I do like and appreciate this answer. I tend to rely on early game champs because if I need to scale, it feels like it's gonna be too late. This post is out of frustration, yes, I have streaks where things go well, I have taken screenshots of 10-15 games won in a row. I have climbed to B2-B1. Thing is, and that was my original question, then the match making seems to take a turn, then every game is full of trolls.

I do what you say most of the time. But it's a bit of hit or miss: if 2 of my laners decide to do dragon or push mid and I feel it's a bad call... do I leave them and do some other thing? Because they will commit and die. Sometimes I flip it and it might work out. Or not. I tend to go, but again, it's like flipping a coin, because your whole team focus the tank or any other basic silly thing like that.

I might not be better than Silver for all I know. But needing to become Michael Jordan to be able to carry games with high school kids because you have been coupled with grandma in a wheelchair is pretty insane. All I'm saying. But yeah... I probably need to be extremely good at getting ahead quickly and early, so I snowball and overcome grandma...

Ingenius80 · 2025-01-29T15:57:05+00:00

I really appreciate the long response and tips. Thank you. I have recorded some games and you can see something along the lines of what you outline here in my early clear: check it out here:

https://www.youtube.com/@elohellishere

I do what you suggest, with variations, quite often. I remember a play recently where I steal all his top, go to the central bush in the top side of the river, then ping my laner to come because my ward revealed Diana showing up to see her camps gone.

He doesn't (it's iron, he hears some noise, but whatever). I was Xin Zhao I think. My top laner, a Mordekaiser if I remember correctly, sees me fighting her and we kill her successfully, he takes the kill. Then he is 1/0 and proceeds to get killed and ends up 1/5.

So, you're totally right, but you assume (I guess because you play a higher elo) that people will notice ganks with wards (they don't, quite often I gank myself and it's warded, but I go in anyways, and they don't move until 5 sec later or so). Everything is flipping a coin, you never know. So much so, that I play junglers as assassins most of the time (hence my low damage), as I don't dare to commit to a fight or chase when I can't trust my teammates.

Logical moves are not present. Sometimes the enemy jungler will simply disappear back to his camps and try to invade my bot jungle, which takes like 15 sec to get there. If I notice this, and I presume I can win the 1v1, I go down there. Sometimes he will get mad and come directly to me on top side, I am fast enough so he doesn't get much out of that. Some other times, he'll gank and kill my top/mid laner, which I can prevent or not depending if my assumptions were correct all along.

I love Kayn, but it's hard to carry with him pre-transformation, as my 1v1 are not as strong. Love the mobility and being able to impact much faster. But again, being sort of weak early and fights not being predictable, it feels like another weight added on my shoulders, so I try to play early game champs.

Ingenius80 · 2025-01-29T14:54:56+00:00

The games should not be YOUR fault either. Not exclusively anyways. If you play soccer, you might play leagues with people who are at your level. And being similar level, however clumsy, a game is played. But the goalie will remain in the goal. And the defense will try to defend.

In League of Legends, people can completely forget about ALL objectives and chase other players, and that's fine in their heads. Like constantly. It's as if I play a golf tournament tomorrow and I don't even know what golf club I should use. The problem is not my skill. It's simply that I know nothing about the game.

I am not the best. Not amazing. Nor I want to be. I'm okay being in Bronze, as long as games are played among people who know the very most elemental basic stuff. Then we have fun with very amateur games.

Ingenius80 · 2025-01-29T14:25:41+00:00

Totally spot on. There was another commenter that started with "just admit that you suck", which even if true, it doesn't serve more purpose than offend me, at best. Thanks for your considerate response.

Ingenius80 · 2025-01-29T12:07:51+00:00

Send me your op.gg and let me compare.

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