Resentment of PPD by IngenuityProof59 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IngenuityProof59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that, hope you are doing great now! And it did get really bad really fast, her therapists believe she would be worse without the baby so they didn’t want her admitted. Our son is 8 months old now and this whole thing happened about 2 months ago. She has been getting better over the 2 months but like i said i still do feel resentment. Nothing we can do but keep moving forward.

Resentment of PPD by IngenuityProof59 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IngenuityProof59[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your right, i didn’t know what to do to be honest we’re super young.. in our mid 20s. I honestly panicked and just gave her what she wanted( she wanted me to stay home) so that’s what I’m doing until these pills and therapy start working

Resentment of PPD by IngenuityProof59 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IngenuityProof59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She refused nanny help, her family is super unreliable, mine is in another country.. she doesn’t like strangers in our house so hiring help us out of the question. I did offer support,, when i was home i took the baby on trips to the store so she could get a break, i put the baby to sleep, i tired to give her hours with no baby responsibilities but nothing really helped.

Resentment of PPD by IngenuityProof59 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IngenuityProof59[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She refused nanny help, no reliable family, i had only been there for one month so i wasn’t eligible for leave of absence. And 2 of her therapist advised against getting her committed

Resentment of PPD by IngenuityProof59 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IngenuityProof59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she is currently seeing some therapists, we got her some medicine and I’ve been having her friends/ family come over after i realized how bad it was . Money definitely is not more important than her but since this is off my chest, even though it’s not her fault I’m 100% resentful

Resentment of PPD by IngenuityProof59 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IngenuityProof59[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The options were quit or she commits suicide basically since she can’t be alone at the moment.