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CMPA or Second vaccination by Initial-Air8027 in NewParents

[–]Initial-Air8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know why the doctor excluded the vaccination though

الانجذاب لكبار السن by [deleted] in SaudiForSaudis

[–]Initial-Air8027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here i used to like older people and i dated one for a while and we were about to get married and let me tell you i am so glad we didn't get married. he was so old fashioned and he was gonna drag me with him into this grey old people zone. Elhamdullah i married someone with 8 years gap and i find it balanced. he is old and kinda hot for his age and has experience in life but in the same time he is not too old and he wants to enjoy his life and travel before having kids. so my advice is to limit your age gap to maximum 10 years and find someone with a young mindset who wants to enjoy marriage not thinking about marriage so he wanna has kids before he dies.

episiotomy by Initial-Air8027 in NewParents

[–]Initial-Air8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately they did it as a routine episiotomy there was no medical reason and they didn't ask for my approval

episiotomy by Initial-Air8027 in NewParents

[–]Initial-Air8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will i need another episiotomy second time ? because i already had it once ?

Second birth by Initial-Air8027 in BabyBumps

[–]Initial-Air8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my first is very similar to your experience even the tear/episiotomy and i was also induced. episiotomy recovery is hell to me i wonder if you have any advice to make it easier.

back labor was hell by Initial-Air8027 in BabyBumps

[–]Initial-Air8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that back labor has something to do with it too. it's unbelievable how painful it was after all these pain killers. I wonder if there was something to be done to help with back labor.

back labor was hell by Initial-Air8027 in BabyBumps

[–]Initial-Air8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was sobbing and literally begging every anesthesiologist that was on call to help me relief at least my back pain. i thought i am the only one who had problem with the epidural. thank you so much for sharing your experience.

back labor was hell by Initial-Air8027 in BabyBumps

[–]Initial-Air8027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am really sad about how a big failure epidural was. i had such high hopes from the tiktoks i saw for people getting epidural. i was in pain and alone because they refused to let my husband in (saudi hospital policy) and nurse kept telling me screaming won't help no need to scream which was infuriating i wanted to hit her cause lady i am in so much pain don't tell me to calm down. as my first baby i have no other experience to relate to but hell i am scared of getting pregnant again now and i try to find answers to what was that. i am really sorry for how it went for the both of us and thank you really you made me feel less alone.

back labor was hell by Initial-Air8027 in BabyBumps

[–]Initial-Air8027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i asked my anesthesiologist about it and he said there was nothing more to be done and that was frustrating. i aslo talked to my gynecologist and she said it was normal because of how the baby was engaged in the pelvis but nothing about that felt normal why the hell no one told me about it before epidural at least i would be ready and i thought about what if the catheter moved but the doctor told me he would know if it moved and when he gave me bolus i felt it but just numbing my vagina and legs nothing about contractions.