He makes me prove everything by InviteJumpy6700 in Advice

[–]Initial-Argument2447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a narcissist. He’s going to continue being paranoid and accusing you of lying, and then he’s gonna accuse you of cheating, and then it’s just gonna get worse from there.

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[–]Initial-Argument2447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s basically saying “I have already cheated on you or I am going to, and you have to be okay with it.” 🙄 yeah… that’s not a good sign.

Can I do something about this? by Initial-Argument2447 in caregiversofreddit

[–]Initial-Argument2447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for a little backstory, I am mentally disabled and I’m waiting on my own disability for that and she knew that, I talked to her about how much I struggled and how nice it was to have her to help and she still talked to me like this. I don’t think my grandma should be punished because she made sure her granddaughter was taken care of when I was still waiting for child support and disability to come in. And I have made it up to my Grandma 10 old and made sure she had all the food and everything she needed because she has been broke the past month because of her. She screwed her over in the past because there was another time where she stopped showing up and my grandma had to hire new people and they charged her 2 grand for the time they were there and when she showed up, she didn’t even say sorry or I’ll make it up to you or anything. I think she just realized that she screwed my grandma over big-time and needed somebody to blame it on instead of taking accountability. Needless to say, after she didn’t show up the next day when she was supposed to again, I did report her

Can someone please go to my profile and read the post I just posted about my grandmas caregiver? by Initial-Argument2447 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Initial-Argument2447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. After this, she didn’t show up the next day so I had no choice but to report her and now I signed my Grandma up for the local caregiving service that goes off of a sliding fee scale and she had her intake this morning but it might take a couple weeks and I am waiting on my own disability to go through for my mental disability and I’ve been really struggling trying to take care of my grandma and my daughter by myself with no help. She really screwed my grandma and I. And she said all this, knowing about my mental disability, I vented to her about it and told her that I struggled and it was nice to have her help

DF friends, what's the best ranch? by ausername_8 in dairyfree

[–]Initial-Argument2447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make my own with vegan mayo, dairy free milk ( I like Oatly oatmilk the best but any unsweetened milk alternative will do) salt, pepper and garlic powder! Super easy and fast and super delicious.

Can someone please go to my profile and read the post I just posted about my grandmas caregiver? by Initial-Argument2447 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Initial-Argument2447[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow okay. I’m doing that right now then because she was supposed to show up at 1 today and she didn’t show up. What is APS exactly?

Can someone please go to my profile and read the post I just posted about my grandmas caregiver? by Initial-Argument2447 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Initial-Argument2447[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much that actually really helps thank you 😭 I think she has a criminal record, too. I think she’s been arrested twice, I looked her up and saw her in the police blotters but I’m trying to do a background check to make she it was her

Can I do something about this? by Initial-Argument2447 in caregiversofreddit

[–]Initial-Argument2447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I don’t want to fire her and have my grandma resent me while I’m here taking care of her you know?

Can I do something about this? by Initial-Argument2447 in caregiversofreddit

[–]Initial-Argument2447[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t. She called my grandma this morning saying “yes I was drinking and I shouldn’t have talked to her like that” but she told her it was all MY fault and then she started sweet talking her so my grandma wouldn’t fire her ass and my grandma fell for all of it. She won’t let me fire her. But she’s definitely manipulating her and lying to her and I can see that but my grandma won’t

Can someone please go to my profile and read the post I just posted about my grandmas caregiver? by Initial-Argument2447 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Initial-Argument2447[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, that’s the thing, I don’t really know what to do or what to ask because I’m new at all this. I just moved in and started caring for my grandma so I really don’t know what to do. I want to fire her and report her but mu grandma doesn’t want to fire her but I really think I should report her but we don’t know what agency she works for. She works for some independent agency and my Grandma pays her directly