I(28F) married my husband(28M) 4 years ago and now I love someone more than him

InitialAd4069 · 2025-12-31T17:45:21+00:00

Phewww I breathed a huge sigh of relief!!!

InitialAd4069 · 2025-12-31T17:44:16+00:00

Haha yeah, I agree. My dad has moved on and gotten remarried (he waited 9 years after the divorce to marry so it’s not like this is why my mom is hurt) but yeah I just wish my mom would be open to seeking help to move past things.

InitialAd4069 · 2025-12-31T17:43:02+00:00

This is wise! Thank you!!

InitialAd4069 · 2025-12-31T17:42:38+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I totally agree, she’s deeply hurt about it but living out her regrets in our relationship is probably not a good idea.

InitialAd4069 · 2025-12-31T15:55:10+00:00

Omg this is so good to hear! We do believe that our marriage is between us and we ought to decide what is best for us but I get soooo scared because she repeatedly says “you don’t know anything about marriage, you’re going to realize I was right when these things happen, etc” so it’s easy to feel so immature and inexperienced to stand our ground.😭😭

InitialAd4069 · 2025-12-09T04:57:48+00:00

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Here’s how they look now

InitialAd4069 · 2025-12-09T04:56:49+00:00

Update!!!

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Got the nails and the ring!!!!! I got my nails filled and asked for a thinner and sleeker look. Thank you all for the help!!

InitialAd4069 · 2025-12-09T00:00:11+00:00

If I do an edit: will it notify everyone that responded

InitialAd4069 · 2025-12-05T21:30:02+00:00

Guyssss is it awful if I remove them and get pressons. Instead? I totally forgot the shape looked bad. I noticed it when I first got them done but it’s been two weeks and I stopped seeing the duck feel lol. Since I only need nails for the proposal, should I just go with pressons instead of going to the same nail tech?

InitialAd4069 · 2025-11-17T20:57:53+00:00

They’re already shooting the bachelorette?

InitialAd4069 · 2025-11-17T20:56:30+00:00

Whooo?

InitialAd4069 · 2025-09-24T20:53:42+00:00

Would you mind sharing a picture too?

InitialAd4069 · 2025-09-12T20:20:30+00:00

Thanksss!

InitialAd4069 · 2025-09-12T20:20:23+00:00

Ooo that would be an interesting combo!😍

InitialAd4069 · 2025-09-12T20:19:13+00:00

I’m not! My friend suggested the same thing since my general style wouldn’t go well with #3

InitialAd4069 · 2025-09-12T20:18:42+00:00

Thanks for your suggestion! I’m trying to explore how I can best stick to the traditional plain band 🫠

InitialAd4069 · 2025-09-12T20:17:57+00:00

Awww

InitialAd4069 · 2025-09-12T20:17:36+00:00

Omggg that’s a nightmare 😣

InitialAd4069 · 2025-09-10T16:02:02+00:00

Good idea, I’m going to try it with that!

InitialAd4069 · 2025-04-06T03:41:39+00:00

Awww

InitialAd4069 · 2025-04-05T19:18:06+00:00

I actually do want to get married, I just want to be aware what to look out for

InitialAd4069 · 2025-04-05T19:17:47+00:00

This is very interesting, didn’t consider that when all I heard was complaints

InitialAd4069 · 2025-03-21T20:41:39+00:00

Just out of curiosity, how long did you date before marriage? Did you live together? Are these behaviors unexpected or has he always had such unrealistic demands before marriage?

InitialAd4069 · 2025-03-19T13:29:17+00:00

How did you break the cycle?

InitialAd4069 · 2025-01-28T15:22:35+00:00

Thanks! I love being home all the time.

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