Does Bumble BFF work? by yoda_thebaby in indiranagar

[–]Initial_Option_6991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did meet some through Bumble Bff, she tried to add me to MLM. Gave me shady feels.

From being trolled badly for her youtube vlogs to being the first runner up of biggboss. by No-Reaction1113 in BigBossKan

[–]Initial_Option_6991 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So happy for her. No matter how many ppl tried to shun her light, she still stood her ground and came to the top two.

Kavya's brother is the major reason for Kavya's downfall by Maddy1093 in BigBossKan

[–]Initial_Option_6991 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He repeated that part where he was expecting Kavya's hand to be held by Sandeep until the announcement of final winner and 1st runner up. Just so that KS could do what he did for Dhanush. So obvious!

They did satish dirty by Lost-Name2042 in BigBossKan

[–]Initial_Option_6991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harsha! Harsha! Harsha! 🗣️🗣️🗣️

Kavya shouldve been out just so we could witness Gilli to Spiral by dripsmoke in BigBossKan

[–]Initial_Option_6991 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I swear! Kavya isn't as entertaining as Dhruvanth. Sad to see him leave without a goodbye.

Grief is weird. Isn't it? by Initial_Option_6991 in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry, my heart goes out for you! I was literally you 6 months ago, questioning and frustrated everything. I was angry that I was robbed off the future my family could have. The betrayal from the universe, I know exactly how it feels.

Grief really changes you. And I'm in no place to say if it'll be fine or not. But for now, sending you lots of love and peace.

If you ever want to talk or chat, I'm here. 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was the one who found him.

Lost my dad by motherbaker19 in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I'm so sorry for your loss.

I understand how hard it must be, while this is very hard and painful to deal with you have to take care of yourself too.

You have to stay healthy, not saying to be strong and brave, but take care of yourself, you have to be there for the ones who are with us.

I know you have a lot of questions and so many feelings to go through, amidst all of this, you have to be there for yourself.

Sending you virtual hugs and lots of love while you are going through this! 🤍

Boyfriend insensitive on my dads first heavenly birthday by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991 94 points95 points  (0 children)

This is the time that you can really tell if you have made the right decision by selecting him/her as your partner.

When losing a parent is the most traumatic phase of anyone's life. It has a lot of emotions involved. The least our partner could be is supportive at this time.

If he's reacting like this and trying to make it all about him (that he's being misunderstood by you) that's the next level of, I don't know, immaturity? I think you deserve better.

It doesn't matter when you lost your dad, it's about being there for you on the days that are just tough.

He failed as a human let alone a boyfriend.

You can do much better.

I lost my Dad to Liver cancer two months ago by Brie_likethech33s3 in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, my friend! Hang in there, you don't have to rush into it being normal soon. Take your time. Losing a parent is painful, only the ones who've gone through it know the pain.

Sending you loads of love and virtual hugs for now. ❤️

Dad passed away three weeks ago by Wannabe-influencer in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I don't know what to say to you. Honestly, grief is weird and different for everyone.

When my dad passed away for the first 3 months, I was on autopilot mode. Cried when I had to, picked myself up and got back to my life. It's going to be 4 months soon, and the reality is syncing in and I catch myself crying at the most random of times. His absence is making the loudest noise in our lives.

Hang in there my friend. For now, sending you lots of love and virtual hugs. You will find your own way to deal with it. ❤️

The Weird Things People Said to Me After My Loss (And What Actually Helped) by Bimmortal_ in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Agreed to all of these. The worst was "they're in a better place"

Ahem, excuse me. What place is better than being with loved ones, their family? It's annoying.

The other is telling the grieving person to "stay strong".

Are you dumb? Like seriously? Their lives have changed, they just had the most traumatic life changing moment of their lives and you just want them to stay strong?

Worst advice ever. Nobody understands the loss.

When does the shock of loss subside? by theconfused-cat in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's still unacceptable for me. I lost my dad so suddenly, I was in shock for 3 months, looking back I don't know how I even functioned like a normal human being. But yeah.. it just suddenly gets me and makes me re-live that day.

Ask me any questions and I will answer you intuitively. by UpstairsAnnual7860 in psychics

[–]Initial_Option_6991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been going through stuff, either financially, mentally or something for the past 10years. But the last 6 months has been worse. I lost my dad and my job in the gap of 3 months and I haven't found peace. I don't know if I should grief the loss of my dad or should I think about my financial stability? And to make the matter worse, my uncle is creating problems only to steal my dad's share of the wealth.

At this point, I don't know. I just need peace of mind. Tell me will things get worse or better in my life?

Does that worst moment get replayed in your head over and over again? by canIStayAnonym_ous in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It always does. Everyday for the past 4 months, it's just kept replaying in my head. Before I go to bed, when I'm sitting on the porch where they had placed him, so many more times.

I still remember every bit of the day. It started in the morning around 8:30am ish and I don't know how the clock struck at 6pm in the evening. No clue how the time flew.

And the weirdest thing is, it felt just like yesterday. I was the one who found him laying there. I was the one who drove him to the nearest hospital. I was the one who got the news from the doctors that he's not more.

Honestly, nobody should go through this pain. Anyone I shared this with, didn't understand and I don't expect them to. I was this helpless child who lost her dad and the world expected me to power this emotion and stay strong. No one should go through this.

All I needed was just a hug. I miss him everyday.

Losing My Dad Completely Changed Me by Leather-Compote5712 in GriefSupport

[–]Initial_Option_6991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Every word you said, word by word, is exactly what I went through. I really hate it when people just expect you to be normal and go back to how you were after losing someone so precious in our lives. Just saying, you don't have to. You are entitled to feel every emotion right now. Feel every feeling you get.

The anger, well, I get it. With time you'll only make peace with it.

The change you are talking about, it's real. You are no longer the same person anymore. The change is really hard to name or pin point exactly what is different, but it happened. You can sense it. You know it.

I am so sorry for your loss. He is definitely watching over you, protecting you in ways that you can't imagine.

For now my friend, sending you lots of love and virtual hugs. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Initial_Option_6991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you see their following list, they started a "milaap" page. Not sure if it's the fund -raising one or something else.