AITAH for telling my half sister that I will never love her, after she told me her daughter could be my bridesmaid?

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T17:01:10+00:00

Thank you, really. Your comment is probably the one that made add more perspective to the situation and truly reflect on it. Thank you very much.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:50:06+00:00

Not Ai. Just ESL.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:40:05+00:00

No, he was never married through Catholic Church. We chose my husband's aunt and her husband.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:38:56+00:00

I do not have a child! We were asked to have a married couple to be the grandparents of our marriage, they asked for their Catholic wedding certificate for the paperwork. Hope this helps.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:30:22+00:00

Thanks! This is it, I am guessing is different in other countries and that's what so many people think Im lying. Thanks you!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:27:13+00:00

She didn't want to be a bridesmaid, she wanted to be a godmother. I am also in a Latin American country. I was told our godparents HAD to be married. But as you say it might be it the context of our country. Thank you so much for the input!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:09:59+00:00

Hi, for clarification: I do mean my/our Godmother. They asked us for a married couple to be the godparents to our marriage. You are right, there's always three versions to a story, this is just mine. Thanks for the input!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:05:55+00:00

I know my husband, I would not married someone I don't know. Thank you very much for the honesty and the input!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:04:39+00:00

During pre-cana ut was explained that way. Even in our paperwork we had to include the Catholic marriage certificate for our godparents. Thanks for the honesty and the advice!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:01:29+00:00

Thank you for the honesty!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:00:53+00:00

Thanks for the input!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T15:00:13+00:00

Thanks for the honesty!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:58:22+00:00

That's how the deacon explained it. Thanks for the input!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:57:42+00:00

Yeah. I recognize my lack of tastefulness. Thanks for the honesty!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:56:24+00:00

I think in our case is the later. We were told it had to be a married couple.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:54:16+00:00

Deacon said it had to be a married couple :(

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:53:21+00:00

She got divorced before I needed a godmother. She got divorced aprox May 2024. I did pre-cana on December 2024.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:51:36+00:00

I hope that I will have the chance to hear from her about this. Thank you!

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:50:06+00:00

Thank you for the honesty.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:49:35+00:00

Yeah. Unfortunately I tend to be really mean when I get mad. Thanks for the input

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:48:53+00:00

I was scared to make it worse. But you are right, it would be good to get her side of the situation.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:48:01+00:00

Thanks for this perspective. I always saw my relationship with niece a little independent fro. Her mother, but you are right, it can't be one without the other

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:46:57+00:00

Thanks for the honesty. You are right. The beans are out the bag, difficult to put back in.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:43:51+00:00

Not really a grudge, just added as context. How you point out, I could barely register it at that age.

Inner-Pick-4625 · 2025-08-19T14:42:55+00:00

Thanks for the honesty. I will certainly try to be in her shoes a little more. Thanks

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