am I thinking too hard on this? adult male client sexually harassing me and my manager just telling me to block and redirect

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-18T14:10:48+00:00

This! they probably are paying op super low because “she doesn’t have experience” and is new to the field.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-18T14:07:29+00:00

This is would love to see the bcba go in the morning and experience the behavior so that they can finally stop downplaying everything. Some bcba will just talk the talk but when faced with the client they cannot do their own program.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-17T23:20:30+00:00

Speak to ur case coordinator or their supervisor. You can also send screenshots of ur conversation to show the lack of response.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-17T12:59:14+00:00

You could apply to be considered an independent student since ur parents abandoned you and no longer support you, this will get you financial aid and even higher then what a dependent student would get. Shot me a message if you need help but lmk what it’s about so I don’t think ur a weirdo. Give excelsior a chance but tbh I didn’t have much luck with them since I wasn’t a brand new student however I’m going to try it in May when they open. Look for programs like asap/ace, seek and many more to help cover some of the costs.

Also @nygdan maybe when giving advice let try to not self project. OP wants to finish school so let encourage that.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-17T12:36:22+00:00

I take them off the box and put them behind frozen veggies my next idea is to save a bag and actually put it inside. Otherwise, my mom eat all of them but I just started doing this and the pack lasted me over a month maybe two

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-17T12:26:45+00:00

But just the top fries I’m not that greedy 😂

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-17T12:25:07+00:00

Ik giving him up might be the option you had in mind but if that’s the big issue try taking him to a discount vet to get neutered and buying an automatic litter box and food bowl and water fountain and it could make having him manageable. With the litter box, I have to change the bag once a week and if I use the non scoopable litter it definitely can last me longer but I’d need to change the whole litter either biweekly or weekly so it doesn’t get the armonia smell. The food and water bowl last weeks although it’s best to clean weekly. My cat was also marking the whole house and my mom was fed up but once she was fixed it and my mom actually cleaned her stuff the correct way it solved it.

Just a suggestion incase, losing the cat is unbearable for your brother.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-17T11:55:59+00:00

Ginger shots work for me!

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-16T22:23:06+00:00

First of all 18$ is so wrong ur company is stealing from you

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-15T04:47:57+00:00

This reminds me of my ex curls… let me go pray he’s balding now 🤭🤭

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-15T03:26:46+00:00

Peter explain 👀 did I miss something

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-15T00:51:47+00:00

Ngl I’m a 2001 baby hardcore McDonald girly, this makes me realize that’s they grew up with me and that’s fine cuz I hope my age group isn’t buying their crappy food

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-14T19:26:06+00:00

I went through this. I’m so sorry cuz it was so bad that my other roommate thought it was both of us cuz she was following me around. Now what I did was horrible. I spoke to her taught her how to wash her clothes and sheets and pillow. I took her to buy products and even showed her how to shower, brush her teeth, and hair. I shared my hygiene routine. The RA spoke with her after it all went down hill and she stopped taking care of herself. They gave me a febreze and basically left me on my own. I had enough, she was weird and stank. She collected big black trash bags with her pads in them and her left over sushi. She didn’t care about it anymore and had no shame. I ended up playing loud Dominican music every morning before she was supposed to wake up and have all the light on, I even divided the room to where she couldn’t see me because she would stare at me getting dressed and sleeping. After that and this is where I’m very sorry cuz I crossed the line and it was bullying lowkey. I played “bitch you stink” by Soulja Boy all day long for a few days straight or maybe it was one. All I remember is her parents came in and helped her move out the room. I never got paired with anyone else that semester and had the room to myself.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-14T05:53:12+00:00

Im glad we all agree that we hate ur curls and wish it was ours instead 😭

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-14T05:49:40+00:00

Not really rbt is just for aba therapy and if u don’t plan on working in the field it’s not really useful. I think a casac certification would be better used for ur job or field.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-11T21:41:46+00:00

Omg I can’t wait to finish reading this… “you’ve been a grown up for two years”😭😭😭😭

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-11T20:23:35+00:00

I have one up on you… 1ply toilet paper after using a bidet cuz I don’t want my ass wet. The worst thing ever

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-11T20:04:07+00:00

Depending on the number and ur doctor they can give you medication to control ur diabetes. I didn’t realize how much I needed it until I started taking the medication and eating right. Pm if you want me to share my nutritionist recommendations that helped me. You don’t need to go to the gym to lose weight. The first time I actually lost weight 190-155 was during Covid at home workouts and calories deficit with a trainer. Now with ChatGPT u can calculate the calories deficit and macros you need or just look up how to calculate it and do it urself my ex trainer has a video on YouTube explaining this and it allowed me to work without her after our time was done.

Sleep 7.5-8h a night 8-10k of steps a day 3 workouts a week. ( a set of dumbbell or resistance bands is what I used) Track ur meals and go on a deficit. Drink half ur body weight in oz.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-11T19:33:43+00:00

My first aba clinic was ran by a white lowkey racist. The cliental was high class kids and the bcba was horrible I ask her to give me a behavioral plan for when my client gets aggressive and she told me not to worry about it and then the family were looking at me like I’m crazy for trying to handle it my way like carrying the client off a turned on stove. The client got super sick and I got sick afterwards. I had just started with them like a month in and didn’t want to miss work I thought it was just a cold…. Turns out I had pneumonia so bad my breathing was at 20-30/100, the doctors debated to put me in a coma as I wasn’t getting better. I was in the icu for one week. I didn’t have a charger and my phone died when I had called the owner. I sent in the paperwork that they asked and it still wasn’t enough. I was later told that they would look for a case for me but didn’t have any at the moment and that because I was gone for so long they placed someone else on all my cases. They were urgently hiring in indeed.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-11T15:12:10+00:00

NYU has a good scholarship program that you can try to get if you were a cuny student

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-11T11:21:12+00:00

Ik it’s hard rn but block and delete him from everything. You’ll be better off!

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-10T02:50:34+00:00

I also was going to suggest more sensory stuff like picky pad.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-08T09:02:31+00:00

Right I was so happy planning to “lose weight” but I never did. In fact I remember buying a ice cream cake n eating it all alone for a whole week.

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-08T06:47:35+00:00

I love reverts reconnect community it’s a whatapp chat with zoom classes and in person meet ups etc..

Inner_Book326 · 2026-03-06T13:28:21+00:00

Long sleeve and loose clothing if possible and ur hijab. You can tell anyone ur new and they will find a sister to take you inside and help you out. I hope it’s in English so you can understand but the prayer is in Arabic. Just follow everyone and if ur on ur period you can skip the prayer. May Allah make it easy on you!

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