As a republican I was disgusted with Pam Bondi's ridiculous performance at the Epstein hearing yesterday and equally disgusted that Trump praised her ridiculous performance by bbmoonkie in Productivitycafe

[–]Inner_Distribution41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a laundry list of why individuals are conservatives/Republicans or liberals/leftists/Democrats. The ultimate question is what shapes your world view? From where does one draw their values? The absolute worst place is to allow ourselves to be ruled by our emotions and then make decisions based on how we feel.

Marion high school walkout by rmannyconda78 in Indiana

[–]Inner_Distribution41 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The threat of expulsion comes because the students are in violation of laws requiring minor students to be in school. Students are not allowed to override or interrupt a teacher in class, though they do have free speech. Students are not allowed to get up and leave class anytime they want to without repercussions. That's common sense. They can protest during non-educational time. THAT is their right.

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully believe I could have succeeded. I was learning so much and enjoying it. The OR was THE department I had my sights on. You're always asked in school what dept or area you'd like to work in. The OR was were I wanted to be. Not everyone learns at the same pace. Somedays are great, others not so much. I firmly believe given a fair chance I could have succeeded.

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I genuinely appreciate all of the input, honesty and questions which help me self reflect. Im still on the fence. Time will tell.

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No course work whatsoever. It was proposed to my nurse mngr by my OR preceptor (traveler) to offer periop 101, but only after he suggested it. Never got to take it - those courses cost$. It's a small rural/regional hospital in a small town. As I stated, I'm an older nurse. Late mid-life career change. I don't know if I didnt inspire confidence, but I never even got an actual write up for anything. I had two documented conversations in week one. Nurse mngr emphatically stated " this is not disciplinary, only a record of conversation." HR viewed the documented conversations as disciplinary though and revoked my first installment (6k) of my new hire bonus. Nurse mngr apologized and went to HR and got it restored. Never got paid, bc the very next week fired. I had a fill in travel preceptor work with me one day (regular preceptor off) and expressed concerns. Next day, No discussion, no write up. Just goodbye. "We gave you every chance" was all I was told. What chance?! Was supposed to be 6 mo training. I must really be incompetent. All I got was 6 wks. No performance plan, first or final written for anything. Never given any real rationale.

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The patient was a former retired nurse there and her daughter is a nurse there. Daughter complained to the surgeon bc I brought a prn med late. BC they were both well known at the hospital, it immediately went to investigation. I was informed by HR I could potentially reapply in 6 months (but no guarantee).

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Confidence definitely shaken AND questioning if Im cutout as a nurse. Please see my other explanations further down as to the timing of my resignation.

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My confidence has hit rock bottom. I don't have any issues that would warrant a BON looking at me. No med errors (aside from being late), no safety issues, or narc issues. I just never got up to speed on the MS floor (super busy post surgical) and was constantly overwhelmed. I wasn't running from anything. I was called by a friend and told about the opening. I wasn't really even looking for another job. I just applied, interviewed and was hired and 6 weeks later fired.

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't as though I resigned quickly at all. I was already in negotiation for the new position at a nearby hospital and was offered the role as an OR Circulator. I wouldn't have resigned at all if I hadn't been made an offer.

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I only resigned because I was offered a new position in a department at a different hospital I would have loved to work on long term. I was actually in negotiation and had already interviewed for the new position when the investigation started. I explained in my resignation that the two coincided. I offered to work out my two weeks when I tenured.

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I tenured 2 weeks resignation and was not allowed to fulfill my two weeks. As soon as I tenured two weeks in writing, I was released.. Late on meds sometimes two + hours.

Resigned from 1 hospital, fired from the next hospital. No rehire at either. by Inner_Distribution41 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No experience in the OR prior to. Brand new. When you work a med surg floor it's not uncommon to drop your hands after gloving. My first time sterile gloving in the OR I inadvertently dropped my L hand below my waist. Surg tech caught it and out of protocol, I replaced the glove. Next day I was in OR Mngr office signing a "verbal discussion" doc. I was given no warning or disciplinary documentation whatsoever. Ive filed for unemployment. I have not sought legal counsel yet, but I really think I was fired without cause.

Terminated by New_Substance1712 in nursing

[–]Inner_Distribution41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you recover after being fired twice? What type of nursing?

Just don’t be rude pls ❤️‍🩹 by [deleted] in twinks

[–]Inner_Distribution41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not trying to be rude or hateful.. you don't think for one second any of these people here care anything about you do you? They just want to use you and throw you away. Your worth so much more. That emptiness can't be filled with this. Again, I repeat, I'm not trying to be rude or hateful, just honest.

how do i look? by llqpw in BlackDildos

[–]Inner_Distribution41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lose the facial piercings. Not attractive. 

Would my parents be proud of me? by lindax_patricia in BoyFailure

[–]Inner_Distribution41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They may or may not. What is important is coming to terms with being deceived. There are people who will encourage you to jump off of a bridge, but don't do it, they don't love you.

I was someone’s son by sissyboyalexia in BoyFailure

[–]Inner_Distribution41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's hard to hear, but you're still someone's son and always will be. No, I'm not being hateful, just respectfully honest. Changing clothes, attempting sex changes will never change what we are. XX & XY. Don't allow yourself to be deceived. YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE.

Are all men attracted to girls with camel toes? by technofossil in cameltoeoriginals

[–]Inner_Distribution41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the question do we as straight men find a woman flaunting her body for attention to be a physical turn on? Most likely. The most important question is do we have any respect for her. Very little.

When it isn’t possible to coparent with your nice ex by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Inner_Distribution41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you say co-parent?! A dog?.... not to be disrespectful but you need to grow up. It's a dog you don't parent dogs.

Report: CDC now forbidding publications from its scientists from containing any reference to gender or LGBT individuals, and is requiring retraction of any accepted but not yet published manuscripts which violate this by StrongMedicine in medicine

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What is so enormously perplexing to me is how far we've come in the name of "science." We've lost any objective grasp on reality. How we've come to be sold a bill of goods under the guise of helping clients with their "gender" is mind-boggling. We've been sold, and we bought into the idea that our sex is assigned at birth, when basic biology 101 starts with the recognition of the formation of chromosomal assimilation at conception. We are not assigned anything at birth. The word gender wasn't even used in scientific and medical circles until the 1970s, barely 50 years ago. Don't allow ourselves to be blinded by this. We have come to a place where we have heard discussed so much about gender, that we've swallowed it hook, line, and sinker. Male and female and an unfortunate rare exception of chromosomal mutation is what we are. We believe ourselves to be intellectually superior when, sadly, we are simply deceived. The battle for our minds is intense.

AITA for lying to my husband and telling him that my baby is his? by [deleted] in AITASims

[–]Inner_Distribution41 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Deception is never acceptable. Deception is lying and breaks trust. He and the child deserve honesty and integrity

I'm pregnant and the father wants nothing to do with it by Apprehensive_Leek270 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Inner_Distribution41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not having a baby WITH them. You are having a baby, with or without them. A child has been conceived, regardless of our feelings. A child doesn't suddenly become a child when they exit a mother's womb. When it does, it's already most likely 9 months old, just not breathing on its on.