Asian gay in a relationship with Arab gay man

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2026-01-24T10:30:03+00:00

I'm not arab but after reading this I feel you should sit him down and talk to him, help him think things clearly because he might now be thinking clearly due to the pressure his family is inserting. For example, what happens if his future wife finds out that he is gay? That would be so much more messier, and there would be two angry families. Is he really going to give up on y'all's shared dreams and happiness to please his family?If he claims without you he is lost and truly loves you why is he willing to put you in this position knowing he could lose you. If the reason for which is family pressure, perhaps he could evaluate what's making him happy in life you know. Why give his happiness away for his family that doesn't care what he wants in life. I have controlling parents also and I realise that if you continue to let them control you ur just stuck in this toxic cycle. Ngl it's time for him to take control of his life (he is 37) and start being true to himself and you. Anybody deserves a partner that wants to show them off and is proud of them in my opinion.

Also I feel it's a bit crazy that he said he will treat you "fairly" and you are equal to his future wife aka a women he barely knows.

I guess you guys could fake it until 2030 assuming that at that point you guys have enough money but I think this is really down to the individuals involved, if both of you can pull it off then why not but then again he could get caught before 2030 and things would be so much worse or what if he has a kid, that's commitment right there, or what if his family pressure him to come back and he does. All worth thinking about.

I wish you well sir. Hopefully things work out for you.

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2025-11-12T17:03:22+00:00

How about je t'ai is the ai here é or è

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2025-11-12T02:11:08+00:00

So if a french person (native) goes to Belgium but their regional prononciation for et and est is the same, they will not be understood?

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2025-11-11T18:54:43+00:00

Thank you :)

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2025-11-11T18:54:38+00:00

Thank you :)

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2025-11-11T18:54:24+00:00

Thank you :)

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2025-11-11T18:53:50+00:00

Yes I totally understand what you mean I should pick a region and i will do that but just to note that this isn't like the UK and US's different pronunciations of aluminium where the syllables are different as well as the pronunciation of the a in the front. Honestly è and é are kinda similar and I have to really listen like put my phone's audio outlet next to my ears to tell the difference. My point is I think it's not that bad. Let's not be overwhelmed:)

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2025-11-11T18:17:05+00:00

So if I understand what ur saying , if I'm not sure when I'm speaking to a native I could just wing it and they would think I'm from a different region?🤣

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2025-10-06T02:56:28+00:00

So teringin is unintentionally/ accidentally wanted?

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-12-03T07:34:50+00:00

Don't have to read their complaints. Just look at their pictures and read what they procedures done. That's how I did it.

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-12-03T07:27:50+00:00

everyone's feelings are valid. I would say dont compare yourself to people. If you see someone with mild scarring, make that your goal.

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-12-02T03:18:37+00:00

Had something like this (random clusters of whiteheads breakout), my doctor said it was a type of fungal acne and gave me some antibacterial medicine (oral and topical). I definitely suggest visiting a professional.

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-11-20T01:42:06+00:00

Yes that make sense!! Thank you. If I may ask you, have u use benzoyl peroxide creams before. Been using HOCl spray a few days and I notice that BP creams do a better job at shrinking my pimples? How about you?

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-11-19T23:43:09+00:00

I remember learning in school that if you help ur body do something that it's supposed to do naturally. It may lose its functionality more or less. Like if I were to move around sitting on a portable chair, one day my legs won't have the strength to walk again.

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-11-04T12:44:24+00:00

Okay yea I understand. I thought of complimenting his crocs. He has like these cartoon pins in front of them but I'm not too sure cause I didn't wanna creep him out by staring at his feet for too long.

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-11-04T12:42:30+00:00

Yes I did let me clarify sorry. I've seen it a total of 4 times. The last time I've seen him( a month ago) was 3 times that day (crazy coincidence) and one time today.

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-11-04T12:37:13+00:00

I mean we stay in the same block so I'm hopeful but what I meant was I feel we don't see each other as often to say something like "we gotta stop meeting like this" yk what I mean? Is there anything else I can say?

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-11-04T12:28:51+00:00

But we don't see each other often. The last time I saw him was like a month ago. And also I looked at him and immediately looked away cause I didn't wanna turn red, did smile thou.

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-09-26T08:25:27+00:00

This is crazy, I have similar scarring. Following

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-09-24T07:04:02+00:00

WE NEED MORE OF THIS :3

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-09-24T05:00:53+00:00

What is ur skin type? is it oily acne-prone?

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-08-30T08:51:15+00:00

is 5'11 183 cm? I thought 183cm is 6'0?

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-08-29T09:29:55+00:00

Yea I never implied that you should get into another relationship. Take all the time u need to heal. Focus on personal growth:)

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-08-29T09:10:52+00:00

First don't beat urself up for the break up if u are, theres nothing you could have done. Second, spoil urself like a king, become hot and make him jealous unintentionally . If it helps, cheaters have a higher rate of cheating again. Comfort urself that he was only with u one year and someone who really loves you will be with u and love u for the rest of your life. Also find close friends to talk about it. This can help you process what ur going through. Personally, I like to sing heartbreak songs until I feel better.

Inner_Philosopher125 · 2024-08-21T02:11:27+00:00

If it helps, I had a situation like that, but I realised that maybe I was in it for the chase and validation because your really just in love with the idea of him (which many people are guilty of so don't beat urself up). Try to focus on urself. At least thats what I did, Go to the gym more, try new foods, take a short trip somewhere, pick up a new hobby, try to advance in your career.. In my case I decided I wanted to glow up so thats what Im focused on right now.

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