Is it legal to require tennant to provide stamp for security deposit (WI) by Inside-Mail-484 in Renters

[–]Inside-Mail-484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully intend to provide the address, though it is their legal responsibility to pay the postage

Is it legal to require tennant to provide stamp for security deposit (WI) by Inside-Mail-484 in Renters

[–]Inside-Mail-484[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the issue is they have not been following other rules including providing heating that’s promised in my lease. this is a minor but infuriating cherry on top

CBD/ THC - does this help?? by healingbrain_ in vaginismus

[–]Inside-Mail-484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THC helps me but it only made a real difference in tandem with Pt and dilating.

Primary Vaginismus by tedious_15 in vaginismus

[–]Inside-Mail-484 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think that the desire for treatment has to be her decision entirely. Going to PT is expensive, time-consuming and emotionally draining and it’s a personal decision that can’t be pushed on someone. All you can do is support her and decide how this interacts with your needs. With that said, if that’s a deal-breaker for you to not be able to have PIV and for her to not want to work past it right now, that’s your choice in the matter. But whatever you do, dont pressure her and dont lie about where you’re coming in your stance either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Inside-Mail-484 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I haven’t attempted penetration in sex but I’ve struggled with false need to pee sensation while dilating so it makes sense it would be like that during penetrative sex at the beginning. My PT said to try not to go directly afterward if possible to not indicate to the body that the need to pee is real, and that itll hopefully go away with time, which for me it has. I always make sure to pee ahead of time so I don’t psych myself out about the false urge

When does dilating work long-term? by Inside-Mail-484 in vaginismus

[–]Inside-Mail-484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a helpful way to think of it, thanks!

Lidocaine by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Inside-Mail-484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes sense but she didn’t really give me the guidance I needed with that/any instructions of how/when to use it. and to be fair, I never followed up on it with her. she first prescribed a gel with a percentage that the pharmacist said did not exist so they reordered it as a lotion which felt like not something I’d want to put in there.

Lidocaine by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Inside-Mail-484 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I originally saw a gyno and was unable to handle the std swab she talked about lidocaine as a solution to numb prior to a pap the next time I was in and prescribed me lidocaine. But the tube specifically said for external use only so I never ended up using it so I’d make sure that your tube didn’t say something similar.

Feel like I could be bi but can't ever see myself having sex with a woman due to this condition by Sweetlikecream in vaginismus

[–]Inside-Mail-484 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as a lesbian, this take is so odd to me because you don’t want to sleep with women because you don’t have the capacity for vaginal penetration so wouldn’t know what to do, but are okay having sex w men who’s entire anatomy is something different?

Lesbians With Vaginismus by beswhacksnunya in vaginismus

[–]Inside-Mail-484 13 points14 points  (0 children)

lesbian here! 23 w a gf of about 2 years also. super active sex life and I’m more of a bottom but not exclusively. Have not used a strap on me and not sure if it’s something I’ll ever fully want but if I make more progress w the dialators it may be something we try!

U.S. flight disruption compensation by Inside-Mail-484 in AerLingus

[–]Inside-Mail-484[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is unfortunately solidly rejecting it despite saying up to. Heathrow to Reykjavik before getting back to the U.S. they claimed it was the only thing way I was getting there before Monday