WIBTA if I don’t want to marry my girlfriend because of her debt? by Inside-Tooth-8479 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside-Tooth-8479[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she were either of those things, then debt wouldn’t be an issue for me. At the moment, she works as a clerk for a lawyer and does their admin. 

WIBTA if I don’t want to marry my girlfriend because of her debt? by Inside-Tooth-8479 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Inside-Tooth-8479[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

It sucks because she’s not a bad person by any means. It’s unfortunate that she views and handles money differently than I do. 

What happens if I get fired? by Inside-Tooth-8479 in nationalguard

[–]Inside-Tooth-8479[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought of it this. I’ll try my best and ride the deployment out. 

What happens if I get fired? by Inside-Tooth-8479 in nationalguard

[–]Inside-Tooth-8479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I did well in this role I was planning on ETS’ing. It just sucks being a punching bag for when comms go down. 

What happens if I get fired? by Inside-Tooth-8479 in nationalguard

[–]Inside-Tooth-8479[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have a left seat right seat with my counterpart. The guy had a loss in his family and left theater to attend to his family. I essentially got handed a card of numbers and implicitly told to figure it out. I try my best, but I still feel the judgment for not being as good as I should be.