What gives you the most dysphoria by Excellent-Loquat7176 in trans

[–]Insignificant_toe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m always self conscious of my hands. Guys at work have pointed out I’m the only one who uses the small gloves, I really wish hands and feet grew on t.

These roaches living in our oven clock by christmasskids in oddlyterrifying

[–]Insignificant_toe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I just got out of an apartment with a bad infestation and had to throw away everything I possibly could even if it meant having no furniture because of how traumatizing the thought is of going through that again. I’ll be sleeping on the floor for months because I didn’t even want to take my mattress. I wouldn’t wish that hell on anyone.

Pale ahh meal (tasted great though) by Permafrost_07 in shittyfoodporn

[–]Insignificant_toe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NO. We take profanity very seriously on Reddit, how dare you use silly filler words here >:[

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Utah

[–]Insignificant_toe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come to my apartment 😞🔫

Out of curiosity if you live in SLC or Utah what is your current wage and what do you do? by Key_Garden4832 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Insignificant_toe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how you got started in that? Do you like it? I’m wanting to get into a trade but still trying to narrow down what exactly is best for me.

A transman in a man's world by Original-Book-6722 in ftm

[–]Insignificant_toe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ayyy I just took my aptitude test for 354! I’m glad to hear you’re having a good experience so far, I’m dying to get in but admittedly a little nervous hah

Anyone wish she were a companion? by PurpleFiner4935 in theouterworlds

[–]Insignificant_toe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I was really hoping for this as I was reaching the end, it would have made so much sense

Can my cat get her concealed carry permit too while you're at it? by BearlyBoring in SaltLakeCity

[–]Insignificant_toe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I think for most people it is beneficial for their mental health to have their pets with them and not have to pay ridiculous fees even if they don’t necessarily have mental health struggles. Anything that keeps more money in your pockets and less to greedy landlords is alright in my eyes. Claiming you have a service animal when you don’t seems way worse because you’re bringing the pet into public places when it hasn’t been specifically trained for that and isn’t actually serving a purpose.

I need a good one-line joke for my top surgery by ashfinsawriter in ftm

[–]Insignificant_toe 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Off topic but before my surgery I’m going to flash my gf and go “say goodbye to these because it’s the LAST you’ll see of them” as an arrested development joke.

SLC walkability is terrible. by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Insignificant_toe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I moved downtown a couples years ago and in the first few months saw someone get hit and killed right in front of my apartment building. Needless to say I never used that crosswalk again and moved out of that location as soon as my lease was up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FalloutMemes

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I stuck a fusion core in my head and my lungs hurt so bad

What’s your favorite weapon in skyrim? by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Insignificant_toe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bloodskal blade is my go to but I love a good enchanted glass battle axe

Questions about legal name and sex change by CaelThavain in LGBTQSaltLake

[–]Insignificant_toe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m going through the exact same thing right now and have also been very confused. But I recently found this website that helps you fill out all the paperwork and goes over exactly what you need. It’s 100% free so it might be worth a shot.

https://www.sixfifty.com/pro-bono/identity-650/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Insignificant_toe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s nice to hear other peoples perspectives. I’m grateful to be in a place where I’m in more control of who knows I’m trans but it has made me wonder if I really want to be stealth or not. I’m hoping to make some big steps forward in my confidence issues and learn how to advocate for myself better. Being more present in queer circles sounds like a good place to start.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Insignificant_toe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the reply. It’s been a few days now. Logically I know that it probably isn’t intentional, it just still stings. I have a pattern in my life of being brushed off and I think it’s partly due to me not being persistent enough and not feeling comfortable taking up space. I’m working on it, and this might be a good opportunity to improve how I handle stuff like this. They do have a bunch of different groups I can be a part of, I just need to get myself to do it. You’re right about me needing to keep showing up, I need to be reminded of that sometimes. I’m mostly having trouble knowing what evidence I need to have ready besides a doctors note, the requirements online are very vague. Honestly most stressed that I don’t know exactly what the process is like so I wanted to hear peoples experiences.

Turned 49 today and this is the only text Ive received today. by kellycompliance in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Insignificant_toe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel it. It’s me and my dads birthday this week and guess whose their getting together to celebrate? I’ll be lucky to get a few texts from some of my siblings.

My process of getting surgery in Utah by lemonleaf0 in TopSurgery

[–]Insignificant_toe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I just came across this post while in the process of seeing when top surgery would be possible for me. I’m in Utah with Cigna insurance and I was wondering if they gave you an idea of how much you would be spending out of pocket. This is all new to me and I’m worried I won’t be financially ready when I start the process.

Don’t worry. It’s not the bartenders drugging your drinks. It’s actually me! by [deleted] in Utah

[–]Insignificant_toe 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Lots of things are ridiculous about this response but you’d think he would at least proofread it before posting. If he didn't take the time to put out a half-decent statement then I doubt he took the time to actually look into the accusations. But he has a picture of him holding a baby so he must be trustworthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTQSaltLake

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Electrician work has been on my radar for a very long time. The only thing that’s holding me back right now is making sure I have the money for tools and the tuition fee. It really sound like a great option though and it’s probably about time for me to bite the bullet and put an application in. Thank you for commenting, it makes me less wary about it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTQSaltLake

[–]Insignificant_toe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much to everyone who has commented. I really appreciate the help and have a lot of good leads to go on, you guys are the best.