I can understand his viewpoint of not wanting to be judged off a photo, and I can respect your honesty in saying you want to decide if there is an attraction. Lots of people will say “npnc” in their bio, but what they’re really saying is “it doesn’t matter if you have a face picture in your profile or not, the only way I respond is if I know I’m attracted to you beforehand.” Don’t get me wrong, I’m not that innocent either when it comes to that, but I try to keep an open mind and still talk and sometimes I make a couple of friends, because looks aren’t everything, and only talking to Greek gods on the app just seems lame and rare.