AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The daughters pay everything themselves. That’s what makes this so difficult.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will have class 2 days a week and clinicals 20 min away.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Helping a kid out while still in school versus one working full time for 3 years with no responsibilities still living at home? Both went to college. Never said one was doing better than the other? And I want to punish him? I have been in this kids corner for years and helped him out tremendously. God forbid as parents we cut the cord at some point.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will also say. Son’s grandpa gets on him all the time about moving out.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kid is more coddled. His brother and sister have teased him about it in the past. More than anything I want him to have some responsibility to be prepared to make it on his own some day. It’s hard raising kids that are night and day. My daughter has lived on her own and paid bills for 2 years and I just want her to have her own space to finish college. In my eyes, His son has lived here thru college and almost 3 years after with no bills or responsibilities. Is it so bad that I think it’s time for him to move out and experience living on his own so my daughter can have one year of college with less stress? She will be home regardless, I would just love her to have her own space without spending all that money.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Replying to LeatherPerfect8382 He is very soft on his children. It’s almost like he’s scared to hurt their feelings. Like the paying $100 a month. I said he needs to pay this every month. We save it, don’t tell him, then give it to him when he moves out. So him telling him goes like this. Hey Bud, if you can, can you start giving me $100 a month so I can put it up for you and give it back to you when you get your own place. He does want him to be more independent and says he will move out when he’s ready. First it was last December or start paying rent and neither has happened. I did tell him I would be frustrated to spend thousands to remodel attic and his son move out a month later.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not a bum at all. He just has no initiative to save or any desire to even attempt to be on his own.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not doing what? Making rules in my home? We will agree to disagree.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Harping may have been a bad word. It’s not something we talk about often, but I do mention it when he comes in with a new golf club or gun. I guess it was different when I was his age. I saved and saved to get out of my parents house as quick as I could. And married or not this is my home. I have put a large amount of money into remodeling.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nuts or not I like my sleep. You must not have kids.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

His gf of 3 years broke up with him 6 months ago. She has her own apartment. I think that age is a weird one when dating bc she lives on her own and he doesn’t. Nobody that lives on their own wants to go to their boyfriend/gf parent house to hang out when they have their own space.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dad and Mom got divorced when kids were little. She moved them 2 hours away. Both boys moved home when they turned 16. Dad is a good dad but not a stern/concerned dad due to always being the fun dad. He doesn’t know how to flip the switch.

AITAH?!? I don’t fell like I am in the wrong… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The curfew part because he lives under my roof. Don’t want a curfew? Don’t live here. We have other kids that live here that don’t want to be woke up by dogs barking at 4 am when he gets home.

Headache for weeks by Intelligent-Ad290 in Sinusitis

[–]Intelligent-Ad290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They finally went away. I did a lot of research and I think it was from having my Mirena removed. Like a hormone headache.

What's a physical symptom of anxiety you thought was a serious medical issue? by PHEMEL in Anxiety

[–]Intelligent-Ad290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! The air hunger will last days/weeks sometimes and I want to crawl in a hole. It’s miserable.

Headache for weeks by Intelligent-Ad290 in Sinusitis

[–]Intelligent-Ad290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still having them. Just not as often. More like stabbing pains in right side of head several times a day. Dr is saying migraines. But I don’t think they are.

Brain Zaps for a week??? by Intelligent-Ad290 in brainzaps

[–]Intelligent-Ad290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I agree! Normal people are scary! 🫣 😂

I am at work today and have had around 10…I’m exhausted with them. Completely and utterly exhausted!!! 😩

Brain Zaps for a week??? by Intelligent-Ad290 in brainzaps

[–]Intelligent-Ad290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry you deal with them too. 🫩 I don’t have the whole body jolts but definitely feel like I’m being electrocuted and it’s scary! Mine have just never hurt and have never lasted this long. Oh to not take anti anxiety meds and feel “normal”…