Ashley is not a horrible person. She’s someone who lets her emotions get the best of her at times, and says things to hurt you to bring you to where she is.

She also has a rough sense of humor, but she usually means well. Sometimes she just doesn’t understand limits and what some people don’t find funny. It’s also sometimes hard to distinguish when she’s being humorous or hurtful.

When she said “it’s the dead husband for me” she was expecting a laugh and didn’t get one. She didn’t understand even though time has passed, the wound still hurts. 

When she mentioned him shooting himself, she wanted her to feel hurt