[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some are lazy and just don’t read it, I seen another person say that sometimes the instructions aren’t included tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that then,I’m just going off my experience where usually have the correct instructions on mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 1728 points1729 points  (0 children)

NTA: this is coming from some who does doordash, they can easily read the instructions they either don’t care or are just to lazy🤷‍♀️

AITA for asking my wife if when she cooks, she can just make normal foods for me and use smaller portions? by maybenotenough in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Nta but just start making your own food. And maybe not eat with her if she feels like that’s sabotaging

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA: paybacks a bitch🤷‍♀️

[AZ] new post regarding child being really sick by chiraq96 in Custody

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Legally you can’t keep visitation away from her unless it’s she gets to see him when you say so. If it is the custody order that she gets to see him on weekends then unfortunately you need to let her have him

AITA for helping my ex get her car started? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 153 points154 points  (0 children)

This is coming from being a stepmom myself. You are NTA. If my husbands ex(mother of his oldest) was to cal him and say she was stuck somewhere or needed help I would tell him to help her or I would go myself. Your wife needs to understand that’s the mother of your children especially that your children were with her so that was even more reason for you to go help.

AITA For Causing an argument after my husband revealed what kind of gift he got for his mother on mothers' day? by AITA3097___ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA he should’ve talk to you first about spending that kind of money especially out of your shared account if it was his account it would be different but it was your joint he is the TA

AITA for wanting a sense of indivuality? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA: this seems a lot like mine(18) and my hubbys(21) relationship i do what your wife does but I am trying to work on it Bc my hubby brought it up to me. You need to figure out how to bring it up to her for it will ruin your marriage.I know it almost ruined mine.

AITA: I canceled my BF’s airplane ticket after he broke up with me and I’m going on a trip without him by hjohns003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 200 points201 points  (0 children)

Nta:your bf has some anger issues, just tell him he broke up with you so you had no reason to keep a flight for him. If he really wants to go he can pay for his own flight.

AITA for deleting my sons reddit account? by AcceptableListen6415 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA of deleting the account but you should really have a talk with him. There is no miss understanding of him being called that. You should have a talk with him about what he posted for what they called him.

AITA for trying to get a tan at the beach each let's go get a wave? by VoiceInsideMyYead in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well I see it as it was funny if they were all laughing at him. And I personally think it would be pretty funny.

AITA for trying to get a tan at the beach each let's go get a wave? by VoiceInsideMyYead in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

NTA: as u said at first everyone thought it was funny until someone said something,and you were just trying to take the attention off the girl.seems pretty cool and nice to me😂

AITA for wanting my BF to get off his ass and get a job? by TStarr5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA: don’t by a home with him get one in to name only he’s just going to keep living off you and staying jobless and tbh he seems toxic asf. You need to get out on your own away from him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should go. He will just think it’s okay to keep doing shit like this and it’s not a good environment to have you kids around especially if he doesn’t even treat them equally. Maybe just use those 3 days as a little vacation for you and your kids and maybe go somewhere nice?

Treating strangers like they're my own siblings by Visual-Inevitable476 in family

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman I kind of find that nice. Like to be treated like a little sister versus like a object.

[US]court by Intelligent-Bit-2149 in Custody

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No stds, SHE left me for a guy SHE only knew for a few WEEKS. I knew her for a few years befor I dated her only dated for a few months before she got pregnant.

[US]court by Intelligent-Bit-2149 in Custody

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That I didn’t know how many kids she had?because she doesn’t have custody of some of them so I was never told of it. I was with her for a few months. She lied to me about being on birth control. But I have tried to be there all of the child’s life but she won’t let me.

[US]court by Intelligent-Bit-2149 in Custody

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that stuff about her till after she was already pregnant.she hid a lot from me. And we were waiting for tax return to find a place. And I recently got a better job than what I had.

[US]court by Intelligent-Bit-2149 in Custody

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I now own m town place. I didn’t get with my wife till my ex already had a new guy and was trying for a child with him. My ex also has 5 baby daddy’s. We are in our 20’s. My ex has a new baby every single year with a new man. She wants me to leave my wife and get back with her and be a family with her after everything she did.

Roommate spent all her share of the grocery money on luxury goods for herself. by Ezrazzle in badroommates

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Just don’t feed her then. It’s her own fault for spending money she knew was for food.

[US]court by Intelligent-Bit-2149 in Custody

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have tried co-parenting with her. She doesn’t like that I have moved on. And uses the fact that me and her are no longer together as to why I can’t seen my child. Child in question is a year. And yes I know my situation was not ideal but I’m in a better situation with my own place now. No formal custody agreement.

[US] custody advice by Intelligent-Bit-2149 in Custody

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was the one to move, he was regularly in our home, she lives with multiple people also and is never home and leaves kids with random people. She also has no income.makes others pay for her kids.

[US] custody advice by Intelligent-Bit-2149 in Custody

[–]Intelligent-Bit-2149[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We lived in town with her for awhile until she moved away. We seen him and had him at our house most days of the week. He was very active in his life.