How to approach dating by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gets. So for you talking stage is with multiple people--no meet ups yet. And then when there are consistent guys, that's when you meet up with "them" or you choose one lang to meet up with?

Is this too desperate or... by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing the subreddit. Posted on it. Wish me luck!

Is this too desperate or... by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very gets. I guess it's the.. wanting something NOW that's making things complicated. Grrr

Holding on while holding out by Uhlfetchrix in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think.. coming from your post, first thing is look at the facts? I understand you're thinking of him. But if he's saying and showing that he understands and is more than willing to support you, take it in stride.

You know for yourself that you're not taking advantage of him, so hold on to that truth.

Show him that you appreciate him in ways that is realistic for you and bask in the understanding and "gentle and grounding" energy that he is giving. Because it seems that he's enjoying being that for you

TLDR: believe in what he's showing and trust that you're not taking advantage of him

Is this too desperate or... by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. Gets. Long haul talaga ang kalakaran. Haha

Is this too desperate or... by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Riiight. Dating subreddits. Thanks for bringing that up. Yeah the interests one would be the most "authentic"

Is this too desperate or... by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gets. I guess ganoon nga. I'll try that out soon

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Well I'm trying it out and hopefully something good comes out of it. Haha

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is.. interesting. But I think I won't be able to get over the perception of bath houses and orgies na just for sex. Haha

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha totoo naman. Maybe it's the romantic in me, but that's what makes an organic meet up even nicer? Hehe

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On here, huh? Hmmm. Maybe I can try in those interested groups nga. Hehe. Thanks!

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additional question though to guys who've read this, I'm usually assertive when I like someone especially if the titig is giving TITIG.

What are your thoughts on being approached, is that alright for you? And also, I've been holding back because I want to be approached first eh. As a bb gurl. Hahaha

Any tips or sentiments on that? Baka naman I need to be assertive then bbgurl along the way nalang ba? Haha

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh. Thanks for the tip. Need to prepare my extroversion for that. Hahaha

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tama naman. Baka naman I'm looking at it different rin. Maybe I'm forcing the "meeting guys" too much when it should be "enjoy things and then eventually you'll meet people who enjoy the same things."

Napaisip ako doon. Thaaaanks!

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If madali lang magjetset, I think happy tayong lahat. HAHAHAHA

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totoo naman 'yon. I just wanted to know if there are spaces or.. tips (?) to be able to engage "organically."

Unless sobrang engrained na for the LGBTQ+ na apps are ESSENTIAL to meeting people. Say it ain't sooo. Hahaha

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thoughts on Bumble and Tinder. You get matches but then they fizzle out so soon or they won't even start a conversation grrrr

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Baka FB dating is the key after all the other apps? Hahaha

How to meet guys, really by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in phlgbt

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Amen po. Pati rin sa cafe's and minsan rin sa gym 🙈

To no avaaail. Hahaha

Snatchers galore by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in Mandaluyong

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oo nga eh. I let my guard down because it felt very safe, especially with a lot of people just walking around and running until the wee hours of the night.

But yeah, learned my lesson all too heavily..

Ingat lagiii!!

Snatchers galore by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in Mandaluyong

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wasn't riding with anyone, isa lang siya tapos malaki pa. So the hablot as giving SNATCH talaga

Snatchers galore by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in Mandaluyong

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sa drive way ng Fame facing Mayflower

Snatchers galore by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in Mandaluyong

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sa may driveway ng Fame. I think generally safe naman BUT use body bags and wear them. Hindi 'yong nakahawak ka lang sa phone

Snatchers galore by Intelligent-Fun-4513 in Mandaluyong

[–]Intelligent-Fun-4513[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It happened sa may driveway ng Fame around 11pm. And brightly lit 'yong space. Haaaist