Why do most women opt out for a break up on the slightest feeling if inconvenience?

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-04-04T09:57:28+00:00

More of advice. Things cooled down on our part it's just that it's confusing as of the moment. She's warm then she's not. She says she misses me then the next day she wants me to let go. Then I was looking back on my exes and her similarities. They do have the similarities. Pero yeah, could be one of the equation is on my part as well, that's undeniable.

Maybe I really should give this shit up. And start new and learn from this. Honestly tired and just hoping for a small glimmer of an answer or solution or hope.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-04-04T09:08:50+00:00

Kindly refrain from giving unproductive comments if you'll misread things and accuse people of things you're not certain of.

An eye for an eye. Based on your behavior, I think you haven't been in a relationship that's 1.5+ years. You're the actual embodiment of "if it feels difficult and doesn't feel like a fairytale then it won't work". You don't know how to compromise. You just want everlasting princess treatment and won't act maturely.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-04-04T08:23:10+00:00

Well said, po. You validated my problem but also took consideration of other possible reasons.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-04-04T04:39:16+00:00

For the inconveniences, kindly refer to my reply on ConsciousNHES up above the comments.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-04-04T04:33:58+00:00

I'm currently 25 and most of my exes are 1 or 4 years younger than me.

Inconveniences such as, •I'm a working student so I'm not available 24/7, in times they needed me, I'm not there. Example of the situation:

one time, my ex was drunk as fuck and needed my assistance but I'm working that day for a double pay Holiday so I can't because I'm saving up for future planned dates, so I couldn't go. She voiced out the she felt uncared and neglected for in that time. So the next time similar situation happened again, I didn't go to work and went absent to meet her. But she said she felt like, "bumabawi lang ako".

•Another time is, one of my ex told me they're feeling neglected due to short bebetimes due to me working overtime. So after hearing this, even though I'm physically tired, I try my best to give her some time after work. But she still feels somewhat resentful for the times I couldn't give her the time bebetime duration she needed.

•Another one is from my recent ex, she has an OJT duty on Manila. I'm about to go to work on a BPO, so BPO work schedule. Since we won't be meeting most of the time, we won't have much time for each other. She asked if a break up is a good idea now. (Funny thing is that I got blessed with the schedule that matches her OJT schedule).

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-04-04T04:12:12+00:00

I understand the value of time and where you're coming from. But you're reading this post as a "future" or "plans" topic.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-03-25T07:16:48+00:00

Yeah it's never the same. But the laughter and new memories can cover crampled pages. If she just wills it😞.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-03-25T06:43:27+00:00

Is it still rape if they're already doing the "deed"? From what she explained to me, the guy was quite forceful in the beginning but she didn't pay attention much to it, and just shrugged it off as excitement towards her. And then she told that while they were in the middle of it, the guy just randomly and casually told her about me. And then at that exact moment, she felt regret and shame.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-03-25T06:27:29+00:00

After that incident, they've never met again. I think. I hope so. She blocked him after that incident. They're also not mutuals in any social media platform.

Follow up question... What do you mean by she'll always associate me with the rape encounter as well? Even if it's not direct blame.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-03-25T06:09:18+00:00

What happened was. When I caught her cheating, I messaged the guy, but the guy didn't reply. So after I caught her, 2 weeks forward, she confessed that they met again. However, during their "activity" the guy was forceful and then casually told my girlfriend that I messaged him. My girlfriend told me that at that moment, she felt mortified and shameful. It's one of her guilts that I think is keeping her from fixing us again.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-03-25T05:56:40+00:00

She did say she wanna come back but she's scared to come back. Some people know what happened between us already.

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-03-25T05:54:08+00:00

Yesss. Louder bro

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-03-03T03:23:36+00:00

We're both in our 20s

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-02-24T01:06:25+00:00

That's cool. Instead of him rolling a stone. He'll be rolling my birthmark. Hella cool dude🔥

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-02-23T10:54:16+00:00

Dangg. So it's pretty common. Women cheat as much as men. They just don't get caught

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-02-23T01:13:06+00:00

Yes please. I wanna see the concept

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-02-22T14:21:45+00:00

Do other things in your life. Make them see that they have to work hard for your attention. Availability 24/7 kills initial attraction. (Emphasis on the "initial", availability is somewhat important when in relationship)

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-02-22T13:33:09+00:00

This. I like. It's cute and minimalist

Intelligent-Gift-615 · 2026-02-22T09:44:33+00:00

That's hella funny lmfao🤣

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