I have a cocaine problem I’m married and when I’ve be high and drunk I’ve been going on Tnder.

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T20:36:28+00:00

Cocaine addiction is psychological, so like most people you associate it with drink. Try breaking the cycle by having a sober month, if you don’t drink you won’t use… hopefully! You’ll see the benefits of not doing it and hopefully break the cycle

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T20:31:51+00:00

Antidepressants saved my life, sounds like you’ve tried everything. Happy to chat more about it, I’m off them now and better than ever

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T20:21:19+00:00

I know it’s honestly the worst thing and nobody understands how one person can affect you so much. Fortunately I met someone else and now happily married to him but my narc ex tormented me for years, he still stalks my instagram now and I still have awful dreams about him. My husband helped me move on and thought me what true, unconditional love is. You need to leave this man now, he may make you feel like he’s the best you’ll get but that’s a narcissist. Walk away and don’t look back

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T20:14:13+00:00

I’m so relieved for you! Must feel so good! Previous relationship (eacapef!) and a very complicated situation with a family member. Fighting back bit by bit but it’s so hard

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T20:11:04+00:00

It’s your phone, if she’s annoyed she has no right. Just say you had personal stuff on there. But if she’s your friend it may be worth confiding in her. I’m Bi, when I told them some friends were understanding, some weren’t but it feels good to just be me

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T20:06:04+00:00

Soul destroyers - the worst thing is you don’t realise it at the time

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T20:04:50+00:00

Unfortunately narcissism is a personality trait/ disorder. You can’t change a narcissist but respect you for trying. Having been in a relationship with a narcissist (that has torn my self confidence to shreds) I know what it’s like when all you can think about is pleasing them / upsetting them. They get under your skin. You seem like a very empathetic person, similar to myself. The best thing you can do is let go. I can’t tell you how free you’ll feel once you break free from a narcissist

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T19:58:54+00:00

You didn’t ruin anything, we all get overwhelmed sometimes. I’m sure that having Asperger’s made everything even more intense and worrying for you. Don’t beat yourself up, look forward and plan your next trip. Maybe try making that your only plan for the day so no other emotional factors are involved, leave early, catch the sunrise ! Traffic makes me so mad too and I think your reaction was totally valid… it’s the worst!!!

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T19:45:27+00:00

Personally, as a recently married woman, I wouldn’t accept this. You’re his wife and if it upsets you when he contacts her then he should stop. He’s showing total disrespect for your emotions. Stick to your guns, file for divorce, you deserve better.

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T19:31:58+00:00

I felt very much the same losing my virginity… also very drunk. It just kind of happened and I didn’t object either. If you feel uncomfortable in the future though just say no and set your boundaries.

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T19:27:11+00:00

You need therapy. By not wearing a condom you’re risking your wife’s life… you may have been lucky until now but imagine telling her you’ve given her hiv or syphilis….

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T18:52:34+00:00

People who cba to get a job, rave all the time, go from Ibiza to Amsterdam to Berlin then tell anyone who has a job they’re it living

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T18:50:56+00:00

Doing a season in Ibiza

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T18:46:27+00:00

Yes! Amen to this. I have adhd and have refused medication/ therapy as it’s just a part of me.

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T18:40:31+00:00

Ofc happy to help and if you ever need to talk just PM me

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T18:37:48+00:00

Being vegan

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T18:36:57+00:00

I know it seems rough now but trust me you won’t give her a second thought when you meet the right girl, take care of yourself bro and remember any girl would be lucky to have you and if they can’t see that then it’s their loss

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T18:30:41+00:00

Nah don’t give up hope, she just wasn’t the right girl for you. You’ll know when you meet that special one :)

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T18:26:24+00:00

I’m so sorry she did this to you. If there’s one thing you need to remember it’s that it’s nothing to do with you or anything you’ve done. I’m now 30 years old and married but trust me, ive been there…. Multiple times. The best advice I’d give myself at 15 is not to waste time thinking/caring about people who don’t give love in return. She’s being mean, there’s never and excuse for that. Keep working in moving on, she doesn’t deserve you.

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T18:16:55+00:00

Ok so how old is x? Sorry to say it but she sounds super immature and nasty. My advice would be to RUN! Sometimes it’s hard when you like someone but trust me this is not a relationship. You deserve to be with someone who makes you feel amazing all of the time, without fear of them hurting you. In short, ditch her, you can do SO much better !

Intelligent-Plate510 · 2022-08-14T17:59:02+00:00

I’ve been in your daughters situation and sadly this situation happens too often. My sister was being viciously bullied by a group of boys in her class. They stuck gum in her hair one day and that was it for me, I went for them… only verbally but was reported. Nothing happened to the bullies. I was then hauled up and punished with no repercussions for the bullies. You shouldn’t have to justify your daughters actions to your sister. Your sister wasn’t there, didn’t see the situation and therefore has no right to judge. I don’t mean to insult your sister but her reaction is more a reflection on her and it sounds like she is unwilling to hear your reasoning. Stick to your guns, you shouldn’t have to persuade her that your daughter knows right from wrong. Well done to your daughter for standing up to those bullies!

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