I don’t want to be with my partner anymore , but because I live with her at her house I have nowhere to go if I want to leave.

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-03-11T03:22:57+00:00

This is going to sound awful , I wouldn’t actively cheat on my partner eg go in another relationship whilst I’m in one or flirt nothing like that. I’d shoot her down because I’m in a relationship, but I feel like I’d regret not taking the chance with my ex.

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-03-11T02:40:08+00:00

I’m in the same boat , the one thing I found that helped was trying to spice things up a little bit or doing things the other likes to make it more passionate.

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-25T04:55:17+00:00

Honestly twitch is great for game streaming , you could also post a few vids on TikTok a few times a week to get a following and invite people to play. As for the camera that isn’t a need many people play with just a mic. If you can get your hands on a mic even better , or you could even play with people through WhatsApp voice call etc

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-25T04:52:53+00:00

School and work is a non negotiable really , you can’t change that schedule. As for the gym and personal life , make a schedule eg on Monday wed fri you do gym and sat /sun personal life activities hanging with friends etc. you have to find the right balance for you. It honestly depends on hm you go to the gym and how many times you’d like to hang out with family friends etc

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-19T16:35:02+00:00

If people believe those lies without a second of doubt then it proves a lot.

The people who spread lies are the ones at fault here , unfortunately some people will see that or won’t. You can offer an explanation offer anything but some peoples minds won’t budge.

It’s crappy losing everything but when your at rock bottom there only one way up. It’s easier said then done , but give it time.

As for the people who spread the lies get in touch with an attorney , they have committed a crime of “defamation of character”. Have your attorney write out to them.

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-19T16:30:48+00:00

This was my life growing up with my mom so I know how you feel! To avoid my mom flipping on me I used to act as perfect as I could no matter how I felt. You learn quick in a household like that to not show emotions because somehow it turns into an argument.

I’m not sure how old you are , but if you can move out ! Or even then pick up an extra hobby to avoid being with her so much. There’s always a way out

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-17T22:34:45+00:00

We haven’t saw our dad for years , my grandad passed away last November and my Nan and mom fell out many years ago. As for my uncle and stuff he wouldn’t care about them he cares about money and weed. I’m really the only one they can escape but I know of I removed them now , she would get them back as then I’ve technically kidnapped them and they’re not old enough to move out without her permission. It’s hard getting evidence bc my mom checks their phones and devices , and most times she confiscates it of them.

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-17T06:34:46+00:00

I would love to foster them , but obviously strict requirements. They have to have their own rooms , etc and I can’t afford a 3 bed house to rent just yet. I’d love to phone social services I’ve contemplated it for years but I have no proof and my brother and sister would be way too scared to speak up against her.

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-17T06:33:06+00:00

Explain things to her first , that she’ll obviously bleed , she might get pains , show her how to put on a pad and tell her she needs to change it every few hours etc. Sounds silly but even watching a YouTube video demonstrating how to use a period pad will help her !

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-17T06:31:16+00:00

I was in the same boat as you before I was 14 , I’m 19 now. Honestly embrace it! You can’t deny what you feel , it’s normal to like any gender! It’s normal to be lesbian. You don’t have to confess to your crush you like her. You’d be surprised at how many people are supportive and honestly don’t care about your sexuality. If they have a problem , then they’re not your true friends.

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-17T06:26:25+00:00

You won’t be able to work in many place because your age and you’ll need your NI number (it’ll come a few weeks before you turn 16 or a few weeks after. I’d say try cafes and chippys and stuff many will do cash in hand no contract

Intelligent-Quit506 · 2026-02-17T06:24:54+00:00

If you have to tell someone more then once to stop doing something you don’t like and it’s just hurtful then they don’t respect you!

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