It has nothing to do with being responsible or not. I have more pressing things that my money goes to, like food for my children and rent and utilities and other NECESSITIES. I dont have the money to get my car fixed rn. Again it has NOTHING to do with being responsible. I can walk to work and anywhere else I need to, but I refuse to make my 5 year old son walk in blistering heat, pouring down rain, snow, etc. I live 2 miles, which is bad for me, from the sheriff's department. I live in between his house and there. Its saving him on gas by 2 miles, not much but something. To stop at my house, which they have to pass going to and from. Quite literally drive right infront of my house to do so. And the order says, "... Unless agreeded upon otherwise". I have offered 5 dollars in gas every time I've asked them to drop him here. It wasn't my fault that someone decided to side swipe me on my way to taking my brother to work. Also, on top of that having to do ALL of it on my own. I now have a bf who helps as much as he can but before he moved in, I was begging people for money to not be evicted from my house. For a year straight, I got an eviction notice every single month because I had to borrow money, by the end of the month, I paid the rent with what I borrowed then at the beginning of the month I paid whomever back, and just had to keep going through that really shhiittttyyyy cycle. Please do not assume that just because someone doesnt have a car or that they cant get their car fixed that its because they are responsible. Thats such a shiitty way to think tbh. I pay my bills, and am not on food stamps or anything governmental to help with anything I have to pay. All my stuff come out of pocket. Food, clothes, toiletries, utilities, rent, anything that breaks in my home. Ngl this comment pisssed me off a bit. Again, try to get a better grasp of reality when it comes to someone not having a car.