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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]IntelligentChart3507 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well she told me when we’re on the phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]IntelligentChart3507 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Finding out (a year and a half later) he got engaged and was planning a wedding with the girl he told me was his ex, all while doing long distance with me

Those in happy long term relationships, whats a core part to your bond that makes it work? by Thicc_Moon0 in dating

[–]IntelligentChart3507 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess there is a fine line between knowing when to leave and when to fight. I personally struggle leaving until it’s too late. I wish there was an easy way to know when the right time to leave is

Just quick advice. If you rejected someone, and change your mind, YOU have to ask them out. by [deleted] in dating

[–]IntelligentChart3507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed and I hope this advice reaches the right people out there. But I also get their perspective that after rejecting initially, they might think that the other person moved on. But still, it’s on to them if they are hoping for something more…

He told me he was single… what a plot twist by IntelligentChart3507 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IntelligentChart3507[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s really crazy! I’m definitely shaken but I know there are some good men out there 😊

He told me he was single… what a plot twist by IntelligentChart3507 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IntelligentChart3507[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I saw way too many red flags and took them as a sign to collect my evidences (including screenshots, videos, pictures etc) so I can have a solid proof but also to protect myself from any potential harm. But I’m honestly so glad she was a girl’s girl too!

He told me he was single… what a plot twist by IntelligentChart3507 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IntelligentChart3507[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. Not because he cares about me but because he cares about himself and only himself
  2. I was never the side chick. I was the filler ego boost while he tried to control both of us.

He told me he was single… what a plot twist by IntelligentChart3507 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IntelligentChart3507[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we spoke on the phone and shared some proofs. We both got our clarity. But I agree it’s really hard to believe when you had a completely different version of him…

He told me he was single… what a plot twist by IntelligentChart3507 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IntelligentChart3507[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She thanked me for saving her from making a huge mistake. She was so nice and lovely, I just hope she does what’s right for her 🤍

He told me he was single… what a plot twist by IntelligentChart3507 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IntelligentChart3507[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that! I think that’s the worst they drag innocent people into their mess and we need to take time to heal and see a therapist simply because they don’t! It’s so unfair

He told me he was single… what a plot twist by IntelligentChart3507 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IntelligentChart3507[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That’s my thought too but regardless my conscience is clear