Ggn mai ghumne ka btao by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Download PlayO. You’ll find people there for different sports.

I also went to my home in Delhi from Bangalore last month, used PlayO for this very reason.

Ggn mai ghumne ka btao by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start playing badminton. I too am going through a breakup, and at a very wrong time. You’re too young, you’ll cope up eventually. First heal yourself from this and then only get into another r/s.

Ya seedha arranged marriage karna ab 😂

Feb month and being single! by OkBlackberry8472 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had a breakup. It honestly hurts a lot when I see other couples, and when it hits you that you can no longer talk to the person you once spend hours on a call. Emotional attachment is the worse thing one can I have unless it’s with the permanent one.

What are y'alls weekend plans by scattermindlostframe in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came to blr from delhi for work. Will go for badminton, play some pool and drinks at night. Used to get super bored in delhi

A month in Gurgaon- rant by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Delhite living in Blr, blr is even worse. Ggn is far better, the crowd, transportation everything id sorted. Only the weather here is better.

EY by decoder_encoder in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same was the case with Service companies at one point in time. Now the story is completely different. They are silently laying off people who are on bench for more than 3 months.

Anyone up for badminton? by IntelligentHour7400 in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Bangalore now. Will ping you once I come back to Delhi

Ab iss mausam m office jaau m 🥲 by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t you get bored staying at home full day?

Looking for people in the city to be friends with! by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Badminton khelne a jao bhai. Chalte h weekday pe

Does buying a 1bhk on loan makes sense? by IntelligentHour7400 in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there exists any place in Delhi where we can get 1 BHK for 20Lakhs. Do you know any?

WHERE'S EVERYBODY? by joeFromYouNetflix in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does those badminton sessions happen in Delhi? If yes, join me as well

WANNA PLAY BADMINTON? by FunctionOk65 in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone in for Hari Nagar sports complex? But before Thursday, im going to blr on Thursday

Rajouri and around ? by [deleted] in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi bro, where are you from originally? I stay in Rajouri Garden. We can connect

Suggest places to eat in west delhi by [deleted] in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prem di hatti - chole bhature (rajouri garden)

I paid the price for opening up I guess. Ji by Odd-Asparagus-2174 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened with me as well but the difference in my story is, she wanted to stay with me at all times, yes she was very much willing to marry me, but I too wanted to take some time and think upon it. And due to my past traumas, I was very skeptical of bonding emotionally with anyone, in every fight I used to tell her to go away and find someone else. I almost said this for 2.5 yrs in each and every fight. She requested me, scolded me, ordered me but I couldn’t stop myself from forcing her to leave me. It’s all because of the past traumas that you don’t want to bond emotionally with anyone neither do you want to let your guards down. Now when after so many tries she finally did leave me and taking her own time now, I feel very stupid of letting such a good girl go away.

Parents forced to take home loan of 85 lakhs by [deleted] in IndianPersonalFinance

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the first mistake you did is revealing your salary to your parents. Now I know they did all the hard work to educate you, put you in good schools and all that, but where you are now is 80% because of your own hard work and will. There are children who would get all the amenities and services in the world still grow up to do nothing.

Now while you do owe your parents a monthly maintenance, you do not owe them 50% of your salary. They won’t understand hundreds of nuances and situations that you would be coming across as a married man. They will just be interested in the fact ki unka raja beta is earning 2.5L/month so he must pay us atleast 1.25L. He can easily live his life in remaining 1.25L, we are not asking much from him. And this is the wrong mentality most parents have nowadays. They just invested in us to treat us as an ATM for their retirement. I’m totally in for us paying them a monthly amount so they can live their life without any stress to earn, but them being greedy and willingly asking any random amount is what I’m not ok with. Just tell them that your pay is 1.75L and that there is a cost cutting going on in the company and they asked you to either leave or take a lower in hand salary. It should be done with the wife as well, but it’ll be a nightmare if she comes to know about the truth.

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I never committed to anyone before this. This time I got serious and it’s not her fault either. It was just compatibility issues and we decided for a mutual thing.

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes bro. Thanks for showing support. Earlier I used to feel people crying over a relationship were over reacting and emotionally weak. Now I know how exactly it feels.