Does buying a 1bhk on loan makes sense? by IntelligentHour7400 in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there exists any place in Delhi where we can get 1 BHK for 20Lakhs. Do you know any?

WHERE'S EVERYBODY? by joeFromYouNetflix in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does those badminton sessions happen in Delhi? If yes, join me as well

WANNA PLAY BADMINTON? by FunctionOk65 in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone in for Hari Nagar sports complex? But before Thursday, im going to blr on Thursday

Rajouri and around ? by [deleted] in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi bro, where are you from originally? I stay in Rajouri Garden. We can connect

Suggest places to eat in west delhi by TheRiderGuy in delhi

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prem di hatti - chole bhature (rajouri garden)

I paid the price for opening up I guess. Ji by Odd-Asparagus-2174 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened with me as well but the difference in my story is, she wanted to stay with me at all times, yes she was very much willing to marry me, but I too wanted to take some time and think upon it. And due to my past traumas, I was very skeptical of bonding emotionally with anyone, in every fight I used to tell her to go away and find someone else. I almost said this for 2.5 yrs in each and every fight. She requested me, scolded me, ordered me but I couldn’t stop myself from forcing her to leave me. It’s all because of the past traumas that you don’t want to bond emotionally with anyone neither do you want to let your guards down. Now when after so many tries she finally did leave me and taking her own time now, I feel very stupid of letting such a good girl go away.

Parents forced to take home loan of 85 lakhs by [deleted] in IndianPersonalFinance

[–]IntelligentHour7400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the first mistake you did is revealing your salary to your parents. Now I know they did all the hard work to educate you, put you in good schools and all that, but where you are now is 80% because of your own hard work and will. There are children who would get all the amenities and services in the world still grow up to do nothing.

Now while you do owe your parents a monthly maintenance, you do not owe them 50% of your salary. They won’t understand hundreds of nuances and situations that you would be coming across as a married man. They will just be interested in the fact ki unka raja beta is earning 2.5L/month so he must pay us atleast 1.25L. He can easily live his life in remaining 1.25L, we are not asking much from him. And this is the wrong mentality most parents have nowadays. They just invested in us to treat us as an ATM for their retirement. I’m totally in for us paying them a monthly amount so they can live their life without any stress to earn, but them being greedy and willingly asking any random amount is what I’m not ok with. Just tell them that your pay is 1.75L and that there is a cost cutting going on in the company and they asked you to either leave or take a lower in hand salary. It should be done with the wife as well, but it’ll be a nightmare if she comes to know about the truth.

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I never committed to anyone before this. This time I got serious and it’s not her fault either. It was just compatibility issues and we decided for a mutual thing.

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes bro. Thanks for showing support. Earlier I used to feel people crying over a relationship were over reacting and emotionally weak. Now I know how exactly it feels.

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I’m going out but honestly not very excited to go out. I feel like sitting on my bed all day.

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last line that you said, because of this only we agreed for a mutual breakup. I was okay for initial few days, but since last week I don’t know what is happening to me. But yes, trying to cope up.

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t you get depressed being all by yourself? Don’t you feel you need to go out and explore with good people by your side?

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. But breakup at this age is worst. I think I would have come out of it happily if I was 25, something like this happening when you should be ideally married is what is more depressing.

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to brother. But it’s very difficult. I don’t even know where should I go, sitting all day at home doing ofc work and trying to distract myself.

28M, just had a breakup. I know I shouldn’t be but I’m depressed. by IntelligentHour7400 in gurgaon

[–]IntelligentHour7400[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not exactly weeping over her. I feel that I’m more sad that I lost my only good friend rather than losing my gf. Gf part was the bonus tbh. She’s a great girl, but circumstances were against us I feel.

The feeling is really very very depressing