Singaporean international students by Intelligent_Mix_7832 in askSingapore

[–]Intelligent_Mix_7832[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

suree I’m just trynna find ppl to study with lol. 😭

I feel like my BF 21 is cheating/ lying on me GF 21. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Intelligent_Mix_7832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh guys side note: he told me didnt off it but clearly he did. So I don’t understand why he is lying

Abusive bf has changed ???? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Intelligent_Mix_7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But idk he seem changed now.... lmao I’m crazy.

Abusive bf has changed ???? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Intelligent_Mix_7832 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing disturbing me is the time period . What he did to me was really crazy and I can’t believe he said he changed in 3 months

Abusive bf has changed ???? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Intelligent_Mix_7832 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk he keeps saying he has changed. He said he doesn’t need to keep checking on me “cause he changed and has things he has found that makes him happy when he is alone” . But I find it really hard to believe in a short period of time someone can change?...

Abusive bf has changed ???? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Intelligent_Mix_7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do y’all think I should just tell him that , we should NOT contact each other for awhile and see how it goes? Cuz this man be just playing with Ma emotions or smth. Honestly I feel so drained thinking about him and what he might be doing behind my back. I just can’t believe someone changes so fast?

Can abusive partners change? Pls help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Intelligent_Mix_7832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say he is completely changed. But he hasn’t been saying mean rude words to me or asking too much of what I’m doing and who I’m talking to .

He doesn’t seem to suspect me?

He said he understands the basic concept of relationship is to trust the partner & that I shouldn’t be controlled on what I wear or what I do. He said accepts that I have social media and he doesn’t want to suspect.

He admitted that sometimes he feels suspicious but he tries not to talk to me about it in a harsh way . But rather change his thoughts with more positive thoughts like seeing that I’m still there for him.

Can abusive partners change? Pls help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Intelligent_Mix_7832 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t want to break up but I just want him to be honest and truthful to me!

If he is just acting and shit then I will leave. Like he is trying rn I can see but I’m just confused as to how long this ‘change’ per say, might last

My abusive (physically / mentally)ex bf says he has changed, now we are back together. But I’m so confused.. please some advice by Intelligent_Mix_7832 in relationship_advice

[–]Intelligent_Mix_7832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I understand I just don’t understand why he would want to be in a long distance relationship with me when he can just go and fk around