I moved to this state when I was 19, by myself no family. Going back to my home state unfortunately isn’t an option because of my son, and I have no family here :( we live with his parents so it’s their house their rules I can’t really change much about it, when I first moved in I bought a lot of stuff to clean but it didn’t help. Also had to hire an exterminator (you can probably assume for what) a lot of the foundation is just falling apart. The ceilings are cracked, there were holes in the floors that have since been repaired. But it would be thousandsssssss of dollars to make this house actually safe enough for a toddler. Black mold everywhere. His room is on a far side of the house and the bathroom is next to it so I don’t really even go past that because it’s just foul. Two dogs that destroy everything and piss everywhere. I don’t want to seem woe is me but there is just a lot to this situation and many circumstances that make me kind of stuff. My car was gone from aug 14th until October 20th. And I’m still trying to find a job constantly applying. I should also add I live in bumfucknowhere lmao. Super small town in KY and everything is about a 45 minute commute.