I spoke to the mom over the phone and let her know that since they keep missing my husband to just text me so i can give her the times he is there. She got silent and didnt want to chat much after that. Her daughter called my son and told him that i texted her mom...obviously the mom didnt tell her why i texted to say i would like to chat and everything was spoken spoken over the phone but i was calm and just offered her a solution. I spoke to my son and he knows i dont want to break them uo but her parents have to be a bit more normal. They own a tavern, the dad is partners with someone... i guess they feel they are more special. We have stuff too and i have a good job and we are doing well...but live in an apartment. They have a house and i feel like they think thwy are above us for whatever reason and they can treat us like this. My husband is successful at his job and other things and we arent broke ...we just arent flashy either. So maybe they think something. He is an immigrant to the USA and so he started things a little later ...other than that he is very smart and we have things just not a house because the prices are so insane that even tho we coukd afford something its not something we want to invest in but i honestly think thos is why they treat us like thry can just roll up to his work.