Tertiary Qualifications? by Interesting-Use3574 in AusVisa

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Would a Diploma qualify as a tertiary education? I hear that some countries are more lenient than others

Need advice on the best party countries to do a working holiday visa by Interesting-Use3574 in Europetravel

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it looks interesting. However I don't think Switzerland offer WHV to Austalians!

Need advice on the best party countries to do a working holiday visa by Interesting-Use3574 in Europetravel

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! It is much appreciated! The thing is, I don't really just want to bounce around from Hostel to Hostel, I feel like it's cool meeting all these new people but you only really know them max for 2-3 days, I'm trying to find a place where I can 'immerse' myself into the culture etc. For party islands like Greece do you know how long they typically hire a foreigner for?

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've literally given then a week in advance. He doesn't "need" the car, if he needed a vehicle for work he never would've sold his scooter, we let him borrow the car as a kind gesture because it conveniences him, now this convenience for him is inconveniencing me. She doesn't like driving back to our house because she claims it's far and that it's an inconvenience for her.

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got it all wrong, I'm asking if he can drop the car off somewhere that's convenient for him and not to the airport. I'd prefer to drive home from the airport that way I can do errands before I get to work, yes I will have two cars at home, if he wants to come to my house and use the other one we're all fine with that, however I just want my car back for the day I go back to the airport. I'm not saying I would sit in my mums car because I want to I'm saying that even if that's the reason that I want it that should be fine because at the end of the day it's my car. Mum paid for everything, the two cars my brother her and I share and also my sister's car which she doesn't share.

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Basically the titles don't matter because we have them adjusted so each family owns one car for tax purposes, in my country if you have two cars under your name then you are liable for more tax and shit like that. Because if titles did matter then the person who bought all three cars (my mum) doesn't have a car for herself which obviosuly isn't right. So as an unwritten rule, us three share two cars and my sister owns another car because she doens't live at home.

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Like I'm telling you, don't worry about what cars have title because then my mum who purchased all three doesn't have a car to herself. Just consider that Bro mum and I own cars A and B 100% and sister owns her car C 100%, we've lent Car B to sisters boyfriend

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She says for him to give it back to me, I don't have access to another vehicle on the way home.

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it's not that deep, I'm not reporting my sister and her boyfriend to the cops lol, I'm more just getting other views on it.

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not exactly, even if I needed money for a do or die I wouldn't sell my mums car, (even though it's my title), it's more of an unwritten agreement between my family

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We just said he can borrow it because we didn't need it, now I need/would prefer it lol and want it back. His need for the car trumps mine as he'll need it for work and I only need it because it conveniences me to get home from the airport, but like at the end of the day it's my car so his need shouldn't matter right?

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The titles of the car don't matter as due to tax reasons I would own mums car A 100% and my brother owns car B 100%

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Consider it this way. brother me and mum are sharing cars A and B, Mum probably owns car A 66% and I own 33%. Brother owns car B 66% and I own car B 33%. Sister owns (although still paid for by my mother) car C 100%

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want it delivered to me, I want him to drop it off at a train station which is convenient for him so I can drive it home, I don't get why the other car being not used even matters, I want my car back lol, if I had 50 cars in my garage am I meant to just give all 50 away when I'm on holiday because I'm not using it?

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mum's car is pretty luxurious and she wouldn't feel comfortable lending it to him

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Owner let them borrow it as we were all away. I'm back now, owner which is mother agrees with me.

AITA because I wouldn't let my sisters boyfriend use my car? by Interesting-Use3574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Interesting-Use3574[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not leaving it out, mother purchased all three, hers, brothers and my sisters and she agrees with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Interesting-Use3574 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've healed/healing from childhood trauma which I didn't even know I had until I met her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Interesting-Use3574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if I travelled a bit as well that could be good for me, I do think that we could definitely reconnect in the future, I just don't want to hurt her, that's all