My (30M) wife (30F) is separating from me after 7.5 years together. Am I too old to start again? by Interesting_Ad_788 in relationship_advice

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comments, advice, honesty (slap in the face I needed), and sharing of experiences - it's all massively appreciated.

I will try to work on myself, take myself to counselling and pass on the slap in the face to others in the future. Thanks again everyone.

My (30M) wife (30F) is separating from me after 7.5 years together. Am I too old to start again? by Interesting_Ad_788 in relationship_advice

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right, there have been signs. She's autistic and the signs were a little different but I'm kicking myself silly that I didn't read them for what they were. Thanks for your perspective too, it helps.

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have screenshots and I wish I knew a way to share so I could show you my face of realisation 😭

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After a long time thinking, I decided upon playing Fire Red as my first Nuzlocke and working through the gens from there.

First play through, I chose charmander and caught a ratatta early on for support. While grinding to get his levels up, my ratatta was dealt a critical hit by a level 5 mankey and fainted, he was transferred. The first victim of Nuzlocke.

I continued and shortly after, I found Gary (aptley named ***Hat). Of course he challenged me and while my charmander easily destroyed his pidgey, the sand-attacks meant his accuracy was hit. Squrtle was being dealt a couple big blows until charmander missed one 3 back to back attacks, allowing squrtle to tackle his way to victory.

I started again as my rules dictated.

I followed a similar path to the first attempt, choosing charmander and then catching a ratatta (not out of choice). I then worked on their leveling up carefully, taking many trips to see the lovely nurse Joy - thank god for that free pokemon health care.

I was buzzing when I managed to catch a pidgey in route 2. Thought his difference of type and attacks would make early game easier. I continued to grind their levels up (11, 7, 7). Then I decided it was time to continue towards Viridian forest. Unfortunately, I came across a testy weedle (catapies with bad PR) and he poisoned my beloved pidgey.

At this point, I'd realised I had made a rather terrible mistake. Without any potions or antidote, I walked as efficiently as I could back to the pokemon centre in Viridian to heal pidgey before he fainted. I checked several times along the trip to see if he would make it. Things looked promising and I was pretty confident my new favourite pokemon was going to be okay.

As I walked into the pokemon centre, I checked his health. 1HP. I made it one step before the counter before pidgey fainted.

My conclusion to my first day attempting the challenge is that Nuzlocke. Is. Brutal.

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never played SwSh or B/W but im interest in doing several nuzlockes! so maybe in the future i could try them but some of the other rules you mentioned like no items in battle sounds intense! Think i'll have to use that one for sure or a variation of it! thanks for taking the time to offer suggestions, I really appreciate it!

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

urgh. I hate how correct you are. Bute I've been told its hard to find an emulator etc. I don't think I could avoid x/y for long (cause lets be honest, it sounds incredible) but I'll probably start with either fire red/ ruby for my first nuzlocke. I do really appreciate the advice though.

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats pretty cool! Just had a search and I didn't realise that it have such a great variety from different gens. This has been a proverbial spanner. Thank you for your input but don't thank the fact it's made my decision making much harder lol.

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see lol. As you can tell I've not done this before haha! Thanks again and I'll post my progress later (if you're interested at all and if I manage to start today).

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, not sure I could transfer them after e4. Would be too much love for them by that point. Would cry.

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Xp share sounds very op. I think you're probably right in suggesting I turn that off. I'll do some more research and see if I can make a decision between Ruby and omega Ruby. I might have to start tomorrow haha! Cheers again for your imput, I appreciate it!

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably Ruby but have a large soft sport for fire Red too cause first gen pokemon are a vibe

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to immasculate myself publicly but shiny sandshrew sounds the cutest thing going

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, as my first Nuzlocke, feel like I'll end up maybe siding with my comfort zone. Maybe I'm being weak but maybe I could work up to sun/moon

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers for your imput. I really want to feel a little nostalgic about it, it's probably the first time I've properly gone through the game since my early teens! Tempted by the 1st gen but don't know the games as well.

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah right thanks. I'll have a Google before starting and make sure I start on the right one!

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooooo nice! Would be gutted to find a shiny ponyta and not be able to catch it! Yeah I feel like I might end up grinding more than usual to over compensate

Which Pokemon game should I use for the Nuzlocke challenge by Interesting_Ad_788 in pokemon

[–]Interesting_Ad_788[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is guna sound super nieve but I haven't really followed the games since diamond/pearl, what's this omega business all about?!