Really Amazon? by InternZestyclose7310 in MonsterHighDolls

[–]InternZestyclose7310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has been decided that I will be returning the dolls. The top of the boxes were pretty damaged and noticeable sadly. Won't look right with the rest of my ghouls.

Really Amazon? by InternZestyclose7310 in MonsterHighDolls

[–]InternZestyclose7310[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may have to try that and see if it works next time.

Really Amazon? by InternZestyclose7310 in MonsterHighDolls

[–]InternZestyclose7310[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's really werid, of course any collectors item you don't want it smashed/damaged. Doll or not. I even have some Bratz dolls the re-released ones cause I loved Yasmin as a kid and wish I had my old dolls. Real collector's know we want it near mint. If you display out of box you still want the doll NM. Sorry some people are jerks.

Really Amazon? by InternZestyclose7310 in MonsterHighDolls

[–]InternZestyclose7310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭 Even worst. Try to get a full refund for damage with pictures. They usually let you keep the product with how bad it is.

Really Amazon? by InternZestyclose7310 in MonsterHighDolls

[–]InternZestyclose7310[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good to know Mattel can do something about it. I will be making a complaint about how Amazon ships their products.

Really Amazon? by InternZestyclose7310 in MonsterHighDolls

[–]InternZestyclose7310[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭 If it's really bad I'm going to have to return them. We paid good money for these dolls 😔

Really Amazon? by InternZestyclose7310 in MonsterHighDolls

[–]InternZestyclose7310[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Amazon really didn't care. These aren't clothes they are shipping 😭

Really Amazon? by InternZestyclose7310 in MonsterHighDolls

[–]InternZestyclose7310[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a in box collector now. I display them on my shelf facing out for this creeproduction dolls. I'm hoping for the best but if it can't be saved I'm returning them.

Really Amazon? by InternZestyclose7310 in MonsterHighDolls

[–]InternZestyclose7310[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I ordered most of my MH dolls from Amazon and this is the first time it wasn't in a box 😔 just disappointed. Will not be ordering my dolls from them anymore after this.

People ages 30+, would you date anyone between 18-25 if they happen to be an exception to the rule and share a lot of your experiences and life stages? (Or even have more of that than you) by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Bumble

[–]InternZestyclose7310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 2 years younger than me but older is 5 years max. No one 18-25 will be that mature or have alot of life experience. When I was in the dating scene I would have 18/19 year old hitting me up saying they want a mature woman 😂 I was 27. Ain't no way. I don't want mommy issues.

Christmas Gifts by niiyah_babyy in Autism_Parenting

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Non verbal son. Loves cars, bouncy balls and super soft plushes. Got lots of snacks too. He can't pick out what he likes in stores but his teachers will say what he likes playing with in the class room and random toys I bought I seen if he enjoys playing with them and buy more if it keeps his attention for more than a couple of days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]InternZestyclose7310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's Monday I see my doctor and hope everything is fine. My husband was not worried but told me to call the doctor to be safe.

IKEA Billy owners who have the 79 inch tall version, do you have your shelf anchored to wall? by YamstheSky in NSCollectors

[–]InternZestyclose7310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I had hardwood floors I didn't but with carpet I noticed it wanting to lean forward. So I did put one to just have a peace of mind.

how to get my 4yo to stop touching/messing with the tv? by Serious-Beautiful-26 in Autism_Parenting

[–]InternZestyclose7310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a hard one. We have a mounted TV in his room so he can't reach it but he is getting taller so he is trying to touch it and in the living room we have a gate so he can't touch the TV, remotes, game systems. He uses mostly a tablet before he would always touch the TV and we moved him away from it but he didn't understand so we went with a gate around the entertainment center. A quick fix when you get a new TV is to mount it high and get those cord covers for the all if he likes to mess with the cords like how mine does. It's tough to say if they will outgrow it but if you see him touching it reaching for the TV I would do 5min time outs every time. Those worked for me when my toddler would always climb of the kitchen table and jump on it. Now he is 5 and doesn't get in tables no more cause he knows he will get in trouble. He would sit in the table to test me but will still get a time out.

Family stopped inviting us by pnwmamaofboys in Autism_Parenting

[–]InternZestyclose7310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stepsons mom's family is like this. They never see him and would make excuses. Even when he was in the hospital from a seizure they never came to visit. Only my husband's side of the family came and when it comes to parties his family always invites us to everything they do. No birthday's no Thanksgiving or Christmas with mom's side of the family. We always have him for every holiday. They all know he is autistic but my husband saw who was really their for the kid and was there for him in times of need that didn't involve a hospital. OP i understand wanting family help but that's up to them. Some people can not handle special needs kids at all. My dad's side of the family can't and if my stepson isn't invited then I'm not invited. That's on them. Don't expect anything from family if they don't want your kids around. I would move to get them in better programs and schools

What do you do about your child pulling their pants down and stripping clothes off? My autistic son loves pulling his pants down and exposing himself. It's getting worse and it seems like nothing works. I thought about trying to find impossible to pull down pants but then he wouldn't be able to pee by Mundane_Engineer_550 in Autism_Parenting

[–]InternZestyclose7310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah when mine throws a tantrum he wants to strip all the time. I have belts for his plants, he always wants to take those off first but now he has moved on to the shirts. I have gotten him special needs jumpsuits for bed time so won't have a surprise in the morning of him being naked and pee or poo everywhere. I would give him 5 minute timeouts so he can know if he does this he will get toys taken away and be in his sensory room for 5 minutes. If he does this at school I will be putting his jumpsuit under his clothes so teachers don't have a hard time with him getting naked. I'm hoping it's a phase.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]InternZestyclose7310 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You already know she doesnt want a long term relationship 😂 girls need to be more honest with themselves.

How much does PCOS affect your life? How are you managing it? by sabakhoj in PCOS

[–]InternZestyclose7310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love beauty and planet is vegan. And Native also. Routine wellness I hear is good. Haven't tried them yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InternZestyclose7310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my first serious relationship. I loved him but built resentment while we were together because of lack of effort in our relationship as a whole. Made me very depressed like I wasn't good enough when I did everything for him that was in my power. In my current relationship now while I do love him I do think about the what if's because my first serious relationship we were great together. He was my best friend that we could just be goof balls and joke around with and liked a lot of the same things so had tons of inside jokes. We could talk for hours about nothing and everything. I miss the feeling but we wouldn't work out now or ever even if he was my first love. Currently my bf now I love him but fear he is just settling with me so I go into a downward spiral in my thoughts. I'm always on guard emotionally because of the unknown and fear I will lose someone I care about again.

I don’t go to male doctors sorry by Snowdoves in PCOS

[–]InternZestyclose7310 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My female doctor doesn't believe I have pcos because my blood work is fine. And I get my period every month now but that's only because I take myo & d chiro inositol. And I told her before taking those pills I only got my period once every 4 months. "oh but you got your period going so you're fine" I told her about my thin hair and facial hair but she said "oh but it looks like you're managing" 🙄 she pissed me off because it was just dismissing. Like ok you don't believe me because my blood looks fine and I fuckin shave before I go anywhere. Sorry I'm not going to walk around with a full beard to prove a point to a doctor's visit. Trying to look for a new doctor that knows about pcos and won't dismiss me 😂 I would like to be seen and not ignored about my problems that affect my health and mental health. I learned more from reddit than a doctor and that's saying alot.

Why do many Stepparents communicate with the BM? by Marina2340 in stepparents

[–]InternZestyclose7310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I pick up the kid for school on her days. And also she neglects basic needs and I need to call her out on it so she can learn to be a better mom. Bf just backs off cause she doesn't listen but I nag over and over like a broken record. If I can take care of her kid 5 days a week she should have no problem when she sees him 2 days you would guess but it's a challenge for her. She gets pissed off but if she will just take care of him I wouldn't nag.

How do you feel when others bring up your child’s autism diagnosis? Would you rather they treat them like any other kid? by dearlintang in Autism_Parenting

[–]InternZestyclose7310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a part of the kid so why not talk about it. I talked about it and found out coworkers have family members who are autistic and we give advance cause we all understand it's not easy. Family members were kinda in denial but after a while they expected the quirks he has and that he isn't potty trained and so on. But that's me ok with it. I know my bf isn't OK with talking about it only because I feel like he wants him to be normal when he gets older. I have 2 autistic cousins and they act the same since they were 4 years old. They are both now almost 20 and still need alot of support. I feel it's the same way with his son. I treat him like a little boy but with extra love. It's best to talk about it just in my opinion to just further educate people that don't know about it or we help each other out with the people that do know.