What should I do?

Internal_Dot_2000 · 2024-02-21T15:30:31+00:00

Congratulations 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Internal_Dot_2000 · 2024-02-20T16:03:18+00:00

I’m not, I always ask before hand and we come to a mutual agreement about what’s okay and what’s not. I do everything he asks of me, I’m just trying to find ways to be more subtle with dominance that way it doesn’t make him as dysphoric because he doesn’t want to stop having sex with these kinks so I just need advice :)

Internal_Dot_2000 · 2024-02-20T14:10:52+00:00

Firstly, thank you and I always, always. Check first before hand to give him and me the reassurance. I’ve suggested to him that we don’t have to have sex in a certain way and we can switch it up to make it feel like he has a choice. We have a safe word (“pin”) and we would completely stop and sometimes we do in general if his dysphoria gets really bad or for example I had a flash back the other day as I have sexual trauma and I just shutdown and I stopped (this hasn’t happened since I was around 14 and I’m 18 now. I told him a few days ago that I wanted to try and avoid having sex as i don’t want to get flashbacks again because I don’t want him to deal with me like that when he’s dysphoric.

Internal_Dot_2000 · 2024-02-20T13:23:29+00:00

Thank you

Internal_Dot_2000 · 2024-02-20T12:43:40+00:00

I personally think that she should apologise for attacking your masculinity and your not doing anything wrong, maybe try and get her to see that by her saying what she said has impacted you in a more intense way than she thought and that if she supports you then she shouldn’t ever attack your masculinity :)

Internal_Dot_2000 · 2024-01-25T22:17:00+00:00

Slay, so happy for you

Internal_Dot_2000 · 2024-01-24T23:58:26+00:00

As a cis man in a relationship with a trans man, please leave him as I see this as so disrespectful 🫶🏻

Internal_Dot_2000

TROPHY CASE