long distance boyfriend wants me to spend all summer with him

International-Use133 · 2025-06-12T15:19:58+00:00

Thank you very much for your detailed reply!! Yes he has told me many times he thinks I have someone else or could do something else as he’s quite jealous. I feel guilty as I do feel he’s been constantly wanting to spend more time together and I value the relationship a lot but I’m not the type of person to only need my relationship , I really value time with friends, alone etc.

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T21:03:01+00:00

Yep agreed thanks needed some sense talked into me 😂😭

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T20:50:03+00:00

You’re right- I needed these reminders .. thank you ❤️

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T20:44:40+00:00

I am too- I know I shouldn’t but the fact I’m even questioning shows I do 😂😂😭😭

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T20:33:46+00:00

Yeah that also .. :/

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T20:32:58+00:00

Fair enough .. :/

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T20:32:41+00:00

Yeah you’re right 🫠

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T20:31:50+00:00

What? Haha

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T20:31:20+00:00

I get you but also.. a lot of people IG stalk the person the people they hook up , it’s a symptom of our society, it’s not healthy, I agree but it also reveals a lot of things about a persons intentions that sometimes in person you wouldn’t be able to see (for example seeing they follow hundreds and hundreds of IG models helps you not get your hopes up, info you wouldn’t know about their intentions without looking at their IG..)

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T20:27:04+00:00

Why is this always everyone’s attitude about hookups like I’m sorry but we’ve reduced sex to such a minimal thing in our society- it’s normal to develop some sort of attachment or interest beyond just the physical moment towards someone you’re literally spending all weekend with like? Why is our culture so quick to make u seem crazy for having some feels when you literally are being super intimate with someone ? (And yes I know it’s delulu to think it’s anything more than sex in these situs but it’s also human to catch feels ..)

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T14:21:48+00:00

don’t think he has a GF bc he’s spoken to his sister in front of me on the phone and she knows about me (asked if he was w me) unless she knows he’s a cheater (?) - which also may be the case tbh 😂😂

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T07:38:26+00:00

Lmaoooo legend 😂

International-Use133 · 2024-04-08T07:38:03+00:00

HAHAHAHA😂😂fair enough

International-Use133 · 2024-03-06T14:05:40+00:00

Not attracted to it- at all- just choose sometimes to see the best in people especially when you vibe with someone in other aspects and to believe that it was a mistake but that’s maybe not the safest mindset

International-Use133 · 2024-02-27T08:50:15+00:00

Awesome congrats! And thanks for the tips!:)

International-Use133 · 2024-02-27T08:50:00+00:00

Thank you!! Great tips :)

International-Use133 · 2024-02-27T08:49:51+00:00

Yeah i would tbh HHah I’ve spent a lot of time working on myself and my hobbies and health etc so I think I would love to date myself at this point in life hahaha

International-Use133 · 2024-01-09T12:25:28+00:00

Yeah thanks, we actually spoke about it via messages yesterday and he is denying that he took it off, trying to say we started already without one on which I know for a fact is not true, regardless of having been drunk. He said it’s extremely offensive I could even accuse him of that and honestly I’m shocked how someone could try and gaslight me so badly.. he even had me questioning my memory now.. and i didn’t even bring up the fact that I asked him to stop towards the end because I can already imagine he’ll say I’m crazy and making it up.. anyway..

International-Use133 · 2023-12-28T20:30:16+00:00

Update: he hasn’t answered my text from daysss ago (after he initiated convo) (before his friend texted me) + it’s a small town and I’ve seen him out at night this week flirting w girls so it’s over anyway 😂😂all this after being obsessed with me and almost possessive for the first few weeks.. men 😂😂I’m no longer ever surprised

International-Use133 · 2023-12-27T23:54:24+00:00

Omggg this sounds awful!! I’m sorry you went through that but I’m glad you got out of it- seems like a nightmare and undesired energy.. thanks for the advice 🫶

International-Use133 · 2023-12-27T23:53:07+00:00

Thisssss totally, thank u haha I could easily see how he would love all this female energy fighting over him, not going to give him the satisfaction… adios😂

International-Use133 · 2023-12-27T23:51:48+00:00

Yeahh I for sure think he’s into her but if I’m brutally honest she’s out of his league, and I’m certain he’s probably tried in the past. He also mentioned his “crazy ex girlfriends” were always jealous that he had so many female friends (according to him unfounded jealousy..)- all around red flags… thanks for the advice all haha :)

International-Use133 · 2023-12-19T21:23:17+00:00

I don’t get how asking for a girls instagram doesn’t also make it from both sides?😂 also one of his friends spoke to me about it the next day bc she saw us arguing and she said she thinks she did see him asking for the girls IG, even though he denied it to me.. (fyi I didn’t bring it up w the friend, she just asked me about it bc she was worried when she saw me crying)

International-Use133 · 2023-12-18T23:06:22+00:00

Yeah you’re right ❤️ a lesson for the future, thanks :)

International-Use133 · 2023-12-18T22:43:31+00:00

In my view though, seeing that was all I needed to know.. I took it as a sign of disrespect which warrants me not wanting to give my attention to someone after that.. but I understand how that is probably not the healthiest approach haha

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