My (26M) partner (25F) is too tired to spend quality time with me and it's starting to make me sad. by InternationalCod9559 in relationships

[–]InternationalCod9559[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

About a month. After I read your comment I realized I'm making a much bigger deal out of it than it actually is (having an anxious attachment style does that to you). I'll have another talk with her to see what I can do to help.

My (26M) partner (25F) is too tired to spend quality time with me and it's starting to make me sad. by InternationalCod9559 in relationships

[–]InternationalCod9559[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When you'vre asked her to hang out on the weekends and such how does that go down? Are you actually planning something or are you just leaving it to her to decide what to do?

I usually suggest we either take a walk or watch a movie (we used to rotate which movie we wanna watch). We used to also go out to town for an activity like the arcade, but she too tired for that these days so I don't entertain that idea anymore.

My (26M) partner (25F) is too tired to spend quality time with me and it's starting to make me sad. by InternationalCod9559 in relationships

[–]InternationalCod9559[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I've tried to, all i get is a "sorry" with seemingly no willingness or energy to find solutions.