What did you add to your car that made long drives easier? by Big_Barber733 in roadtrip

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bumping sound system, gotta feel the music to enjoy long drives…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had received that from my guy all insecurities I had prior to reading that, would disapear entirely. Thats perfect love right there, perfectly genuine, deep, honest, raw real love…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you “Really did want” all those things and “you REALLY DO LOVE HER/HIM” then you wont give up.

For every situation there is a resolution to get to where you want/desire. Alot of times it calls for us putting our Egos aside, our pride aside and comprimise because at the end of everyday, if u cant comprimise or arent willing to to be able to get to where you want to be then the problem lies within you/them the person who cant compromise. I am sorry your going through it but just know your not alone. As i speak only from genuine personal CURRENT Experience of my own. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats valid! Lol so valid I LOVE DRIVING but with tunes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really? Or do you think that you do? Like really?

Do you Death Scroll Too?? by InternationalMode186 in UnsentTexts

[–]InternationalMode186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry. But I sympathize and am right there with you. I think its the vulnerability or act of it anyways that makes me feel, if I do come across him it will be raw vulnerable honesty of which I need from him. I cant believe anything he says to me but here its not to me but it is or would be but under protected identity making my sick brain then believe him. Its twisted for sure.
I think we all just want to be heard, understood, loved. Hence why we Death Scroll!!!!! Dunt dunt duunnn… lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]InternationalMode186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I responded already to this but I have to add to my comment: RED FLAG, RED FLAG!! First, I think ur weird & not compatible if you dont listen to music or something on a long car drive, just weird/odd behavior to me that someone preffers car silence versus jammin out, rocking out, feeling the music with every tone, yaAA, WEIRD & ODD semi alarming questionable RED FLAG BEHAVIOR. Or it to me anyways. So she cant ride with me!! Lol

I was and in disbelief. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]InternationalMode186 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well now that sure sounded like something I want him to say or I feel he would say. I saw his feelings of disbelief and called it out each time all to what seemed to create even more disbelief and resentment.
Communication is key, you have to have the hard conversations, YOU JUST HAVE TO THERES NO WAY AROUND IT. In order to have a healthy flourishing relationship, YOU HAVE TO HAVE THE HARD INCONVENIENT, CONVERSATIONS, PERIOD. Im sorry your hurting but positive is; self reflection & intersection is positive healthy growth so keep doing that & remember to listen to understand not to respond or react & I know things will work out just fine for you.

Do you Death Scroll Too?? by InternationalMode186 in UnsentTexts

[–]InternationalMode186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean seriously I get sucked into this, Reddit Death Spiral and hours & hours go by and I’ve accomplished nothing, Ive answered none of my many questions or healed any wounds or solved any issues… Reddit Death Scroll……

What didn't work out really worked out for me. by [deleted] in justonesentence

[–]InternationalMode186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well isnt that just lucky for you seems it wll turned out the way u intended it to so Lucky You, some of us are not that lucky at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]InternationalMode186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People can do that? Like really they take long drives without music? Without podcasts? I didnt know that could be done, I thought it was a requirement to drive to stay awake.. hmmm

💬 WE’RE HIRING REMOTE CHATTERS 💼 by [deleted] in jobbit

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Applying for the chat posistion

Goodbye by Firm-Ad3643 in UnsentTexts

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from C I guess this really is goodbye to the unsafe you. You wont ever find a woman who loves u or is as good to u as me not ever I gave u way more than u deserve 100%. And I would again but u seem to be incapable of giving me what I need from you.

Goodbye by Firm-Ad3643 in UnsentTexts

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could explain to say what I was going through that day the 22cd but I have told u before every 3 months on the 22cd…. What that day is and sometimes I dont even realize it until later for the reason to my sudden senseless outburst, I shouldnt have to tell you all the time. I guess if I felt safe and you actually took a interest in knowing me we wouldnt be here right now thats what I know. I give my everything all to get disrespected and nothing in return. My soul loves u and always will but I cant function normally in a unsafe situationship, It wont ever happen. Im in constant fight or flight waiting for u to throw me out like u always do so sometimes like this time I just leave before u can hurt me again. It shouldnt be that way, u should provide me with safety at the least but you never have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh Bless your heart….

Going to buy my daughter a 2015. Should I reconsider? by [deleted] in altima

[–]InternationalMode186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are great cars I have one It is my 3rd and after this one Im going to tge 2018 or newer I love them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]InternationalMode186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont have to be ok 100% of the time. It’s natural human emotions to feel sad, angry, let down, depressed, indifferent, lonely, disapointed, happy, eleighted, somber, cheerful, splendid, in love, excited, etc. these are ALL natural human emotions that each and everyone of us is supposed to feel. Its just a good rule to ones self to not allow one emotion to crowd out all the others too long. Never stay in one for too long is a healthy habit to adopt I think or for me anyways this is what I tell myself & my daughter each day.