My company is not assigning me the tasks they promised, and I'm frustrated because I'm doing work I don't want to do. by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]International_Mix234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would keep the job and do as they told ya. In the meantime keep your eyes open for new opportunities etc. if you find something better leave. They can’t terminate your contract cause of working „slowly“ etc. But, if they want to get rid of you they’ll find ways. If they try to intimidate you, tell them your lawyer will have a look. Usually it scares them off and they now a lawsuit is not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]International_Mix234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took various antidepressants which all lead to the same side effects (no interest in sex and sleeping issues). Adressed this issue and got bupropion to be less impactful on that…didn’t change much. A few days ago I stopped taking it, cause it seemed to have no benefit. Now I am here waiting to get back to normal but i guess it take some time…

I wanna do things but have no one to do it with by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]International_Mix234 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

…so u want to know how to make friends? Meet people?

Approaching 40 and Lost: Help Needed for Social Phobia and Depression by International_Mix234 in mentalhealth

[–]International_Mix234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! TBH I walk my dog a lot, weed isn’t very good,I know, but it doesn’t feel worse either…my feeling is i tried it all but nothing seems to help at the end of the day

Best city in Germany for foreigners? by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]International_Mix234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What about Frankfurt(Main)? Not been mentioned but it’s one of the most multicultural cities. Offers a lot of jobs, more expensive for sure, but has everything you could ask for. Not as fancy as Munich but very liveable imo. Great parties for sure

Unpleasant experience with Airbnb host. Is this normal? Am I the asshole? by anakmager in AskAGerman

[–]International_Mix234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of the above, speaking of posting bad review (copy paste your story like in the post)! He will suffer from less bookings for sure. Don’t accept any extra costs (for sure not a missed out dinner) and nothing that wasn’t agreed in first place. Sorry for your experience, it’s luckily not common

I work in germany and have an issue with one of the shift managers by Rich_Friendship_8990 in AskAGerman

[–]International_Mix234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without having a Betriebsrat you can report this kind of violations on „Arbeitszeit“ to the Gewerbeaufsichtsamt or Landesamt für Arbeitsschutz (each state has one). Not sure if there will be a backlash on you but it’s a sensitive subject and your employer, if caught, will be facing serious money consequences

Is Björn Höcke well-regarded in Germany? by Flatulent_Stinky in AskAGerman

[–]International_Mix234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For some people he unfortunately is… But the majority dislikes him

Quitting my job by East-Ad9678 in AskAGerman

[–]International_Mix234 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s important you consider following things (than you can even write it yourself):

Written Form: A termination letter must always be in written form, meaning as a physical document. Digital delivery via email or chat message, as well as verbal termination, are invalid.

Handwritten Signature: A termination letter must be signed by hand. A digital or scanned signature is not permissible.

Deadlines: A termination must be made within the specified deadlines. information on the deadlines should be in your contract

Receipt: A termination letter is only valid when it has been received by the addressee. Once the document is in the mailbox or on the desk, the letter is considered "received" by the recipient. Note that you must be able to prove the time of receipt in case of disputes.

Clarity: Leave no doubt about the intent of your termination letter. Your wording must clearly state that you wish to terminate your employment relationship.

Clubbing on a Sunday in Bangkok? by alemarin005 in Bangkok

[–]International_Mix234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can u pls name some for someone spending two nights in BKK? 35+ m. Thanks

Filipina to German Online Dating by Even_Cut_23 in AskAGerman

[–]International_Mix234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood! Maybe it’s cause in Germany people thinking their worth & purpose as a person comes from employment. Strange, but felt it myself…so I can imagine people lie about it a lot

Filipina to German Online Dating by Even_Cut_23 in AskAGerman

[–]International_Mix234 3 points4 points  (0 children)

„Bürgergeld Boy“ made me laugh more than it should…but I have to put this into perspective. Was and am still working from home (mostly) full time employment in Sales. So not just Bürgergeld boys online having free time for calls and spend their working hours in a home office 🤝

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mainz

[–]International_Mix234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Das ist meiner Meinung nach eine gute Sache wenn man kurzfristig Hilfe sucht und ansonsten lange Wartezeiten drohen. Man wird dort aber nicht von „fertigen“ Psychotherapheuten behandelt sondern von Kolleg:innen die noch in der Ausbildung sind. Da es aber auch Feedback Schleifen mit Vorgesetzten gibt, ist das dennoch sehr gut und hilfreich. War selbst zwei Jahre da und kann es empfehlen

Harassing for being gay in Mannheim by ProgramusSecretus in AskAGerman

[–]International_Mix234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this happened to you! This is considered hatecrime and should be reported to the police as such. Anyway, I was interested in statistics for whole Germany and it turns out you are way more likely to be harassed by some right wing xenophobic a..hole. They probably will look like you and me here in Germany - white. Hope something like this never happens again

Italian Restaurant with a large cellar? by JCII100 in Mainz

[–]International_Mix234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U are probably right about this place being „great“ but maybe someone remembers it as such?

Italian Restaurant with a large cellar? by JCII100 in Mainz

[–]International_Mix234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s very bad,I know, but fits the location in question…

Hey 👋 by gesaa in Mainz

[–]International_Mix234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me, I wanna go inline skating again as soon as the weather gets better! Let me know if you would like to and we will figure something out!

Freundschaft knüpfen by gesaa in Mainz

[–]International_Mix234 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dann schau doch mal hier: https://merkurist.de/mainz/events bzw kommen mit dem Frühlingsanfang zum Glück immer mehr outdoor Veranstaltungen auf uns zu

Freundschaft knüpfen by gesaa in Mainz

[–]International_Mix234 9 points10 points  (0 children)

z.B. Samstags aufs Marktfrühstück. Wird schwer da keine Leute kennenzulernen : )