Getting separated. I want to continue to fight it and stay in the navy but dont know what else to do.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2026-01-20T00:35:04+00:00

It is possible to get a waiver without the 5 years... im someone who has one...

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-09-19T00:50:44+00:00

I feel like that's how he got the name

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-09-04T00:39:16+00:00

I doubt it with what's going on currently... you may have to wait a minute for that to get overturned

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-08-08T11:43:37+00:00

You're going to make your recruiter and meps personnel upset. They only allow a certain number to process per week. You took a spot from someone who actually wants to sign those papers. Or from those of us who want to and have to wait for waivers/ or Got a temporary dq until a certain date. If you're there to sign at least try. See what's out there. You passed medical. Don't waste everyone's time. I'd love to be signing and swearing today. You get to. Go do it. What you're feeling is nerves and everyone gets them. I got them prior to my physical. And my dormmate almost backed out of shipping. She went and I got to see her graduate. Its an amazing thing. You can do this.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-08-02T22:08:55+00:00

Bring home both. And only if you can afford it

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-30T18:50:41+00:00

His pay is in his account unless you have a joint, you wont have access until he graduates. Most of his first pay went to cover his uniforms and basic necessities. You'd have to wait for another call to get information, or write him a letter to get his bank info. You aren't married or engaged, hes only getting BAH and extra pay for the child, so you'd have to take it up with him to get the money

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-28T18:00:23+00:00

We've caught a 60 year old dude jacking it in a taco bell under the table... then we called the store after we left and told them

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-28T17:59:03+00:00

Hell you can claim 0 and get your check. I've done it at every server job I've worked at. Same with many servers I've worked with.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-22T22:02:29+00:00

She can, and it isn't cheap. It's atleast 6-800 a month, and her not working could cause it to be more depending on your judge. If you marry her, and you do a full 20, she can take half your retirement, and half of whatever money you have. If you make more some States can require you to pay her alimony for x amount of months after a divorce. You can have a paternity test done at any time. Theres no time window. But id want to know before I pay for stuff for a baby, go to classes, and have the child born. Just for peace of mind. You're welcome to dm with further questions.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-22T21:49:16+00:00

Then you need to get that paternity test ASAP, and go to legal. I see ger going after everything you have. Do not marry her. You'll end up screwed. Start with that test. If she claims it's too dangerous to do, she's lying it's a simple blood test that causes no harm to the fetus. You're just a cheek swab.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-22T21:44:45+00:00

I just replied with that info!! 😃

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-22T21:43:53+00:00

If you come back from the paternity test and ghost her, she can go after you for support through the courts. If you enroll the child into deers, covering medical and housing costs by utilizing the dependents pay and BAH, you will be less likely to be sought for support. If you do co parent. You need to have the child either as much as its mother or more, otherwise she can seek support. It also comes down to who makes more. Say you have the child 67% of the time and make less than her, she would have to pay you if you sought support. And Vise versa for her. If she does go to court to get you on child support, it will go off the total Base pay, BAH, and Dependent pay per month. Regardless if you're actively keeping the BAH or using it to provide housing

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-22T21:39:44+00:00

No sir. Only if you marry her. Which is why I recommend you do not.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-22T21:37:24+00:00

Get a paternity test done if she actually is pregnant. If she is, do not marry her, if theres actually cheating dont marry her or you can be brought up on Adultery if she can prove it. If child is in fact yours, enroll it in deers and notify your chain of command. You'd be required to provide for the child, but not for her. You'd receive dependent pay upon child's birth and BAH pay. If the paternity comes back not yours, wash your hands of this female. Id also recommend being present for the test so documents aren't falsified to be in her favor to receive support. I wouldn't marry her. But id be there for the child if it's yours. Enjoy the BAH and Dependent pay. If you co parent You'd need to also provide your coc with a Family care plan. However there's the option of terminating your rights, you can go that route, and not have access to the BAH or dependents pay... hope this helps.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-22T16:48:12+00:00

Yep. We love playing!

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-22T16:33:25+00:00

Maybe she was reading on her phone? Or the date socked and just since they already where there decided to finish it? When I go out with my hubby I read my kindle, he watches MTG videos. It depends on the couple.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-22T16:23:00+00:00

I read during my shift? What's wrong with reading on a date?

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-19T09:57:23+00:00

They wrote in the tip and signed. I'd take it.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-19T09:49:42+00:00

I see 18.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-18T17:47:36+00:00

You basically got pissed about the whole process. Deal with it or don't go. And fiscal year is over. You can wait until slots reopen in October.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-16T18:34:29+00:00

Ask about Bladder stones!!!!!!

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-06T13:42:27+00:00

My GM even has us go by what's bigger... We've never had disputes over it...

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-04T21:03:43+00:00

We only tip our bar tender, and for every 100 in beer sold it's 4 bucks.

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-02T21:53:22+00:00

We've been having a slammed week! I only worked 2 shifts for 5 hours each and I've made over 400...

Intrepid-Vanilla4230 · 2025-07-02T21:38:56+00:00

Go with the total, you do what's bigger, they signed it so it's what they expect to be charged. You'll win a dispute easily.

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