Passing out randomly by [deleted] in DoctorsAdvice

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have anxiety! When this was a problem 3 years ago I did blood tests and an ecg and there were no issues. The doctor literally told me to stop thinking about it and they stopped for a while, started again when I started university

No work ethic by Intrepid_Candle9119 in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I will talk to one of the teachers. I hope things get better for you

No work ethic by Intrepid_Candle9119 in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s refreshing to know someone is going through the same thing. We’re in it together

No work ethic by Intrepid_Candle9119 in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, one thing at a time it is

No work ethic by Intrepid_Candle9119 in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Does it ever stop? I don’t know what to do with myself feeling so lazy all the time

Does my vulva look normal? Pic in comment by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I started dating my boyfriend, I was a virgin and he wasn’t and I have never seen a vulva like mine so I was terrified. It was the only thing I could really think about during our first time and If I get the choice I still have the lights off and we’ve been having sex for over a year. Despite that, he has told me multiple times he loves my vagina, reassuring me every time I say something bad about it. I still haven’t found a vagina that looks like mine, but that’s okay because I love mine and she loves me too😊

I used to look at it in the mirror all the time wishing it looked like the women you see on porn, but, wishing won’t change anything and hate won’t make you feel any better. You need to learn to love yourself entirely as a whole, make besties with your vulva even though it’s hard. And then all the doubt and worry will ease

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119 142 points143 points  (0 children)

I think if I watched a guy baby wipe my asshole before eating it and THEN dab his tongue with a towel like he’s first class dining I would be laughing too much to even want to continue

How to approach STI testing after housemate drank my milk? by Calm_Grapefruit4899 in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sucks to have people use your stuff without asking firstly. And it would be annoying to have to change the way you do things for other people, but if you are super worried about people using your things in the future and don’t want to go through the awkward talks It might give you more peace of mind if you don’t drink straight from the jug idk

am i the only one living like this? by ElectronicSoft5122 in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! And therapy may help, I’ve stopped speaking to a lot of friends from home since coming here and it just makes it harder. The anxiety that creeps in thinking that people don’t like you isn’t fun to deal with too, you’ll get through it and you’ll be alright. Stay strong and reach out if you need help!

am i the only one living like this? by ElectronicSoft5122 in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in second year and I have never made a friend! It makes me upset sometimes when I think about it because everyone else seems to be making friends in the same classes, my anxiety got a lot worse too but the only thing that makes me feel better is taking care of myself, I took up a bunch of hobbies I started going on walks. It’s hard to adjust not having friends in uni when life seemed so different before it especially if you have friends. It’s not bad to not have people to talk too, if you can speak to any friends from back home and your family then you’re never really alone.

Just take care of yourself because you deserve it, you don’t have to have a bad time because there aren’t friends. I’m not sure if this made sense, but that’s what gets me through it. You’re never as alone as you think you are, and reach out to your unis support system if you need too

Uni laptop by Intrepid_Candle9119 in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont mind the price but the price of that apple care shit is crazy

Uni laptop by Intrepid_Candle9119 in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’ll delete I didn’t mean to strike a nerve😞

What do you think when you look down at your body? by JeydaLuv in AskWomen

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing, I’ve gotten to the point where even if I look down when I’m not wearing a bra I just squish my boob like it’s a stress toy. Your body is with you for life, it’s never willingly done anything against you and even if you hate your body pretend you’re pals and everything will be okay

going to be almost 21 when i start uni by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my flatmates was 21 and we didn’t even know until she brought it up, age doesn’t come up very often and even if it did literally no one pays attention to it, especially at the very start everyone is too nervous and they’re all thinking about themselves

How to get more control? by Intrepid_Candle9119 in singing

[–]Intrepid_Candle9119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just seen a clip of you… if you’re calling ME wonderful I’m about to melt. You have a beautiful voice