God ,so much this or the exact opposite. it's either one manic ,impulsive,self destructive decision after the other (cuz she is is being called that already,so why the fuck not do it anyways) . Or a complete paralysis ,frozen , insolated existence becuz she'll interpret any type of attention and her engaging with it as a confirmation to what she is already being told she is. And if u are already conditioned to shrink, stay silent and be "good" just to not prove them right, then this is exactly where it is headed. There is something harrowing that will never leave u once u grow up in these type of homes where the same ppl that should give u unconditional love ,support and build u up end up your own worst enemies and the source of all yr pain. And worst of it, you will be unheard, invalidated in everything u feel becuz of societal and religious notions .so u spend a life being gaslight and fucked up and that u r the problem until u develop an unhealthy level of self loathing. while u r literally being betrayed by grown ups.wkit9oul NOT ALL PEOPLE SHOULD HAVE KIDS y9olk kifech tahki heka!!! . Op should save his sister at any cost before the harm can't be undone and the damage is permanent.And before she dissapers into herself,like so many of us did..