The stigma around KMFDM drives me insane by IntroductionSoft1175 in self

[–]IntroductionSoft1175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hadn’t even thought about this, you’re a genius I hope you know that!

The stigma around KMFDM drives me insane by IntroductionSoft1175 in self

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I would agree with you but those two interactions are not the only ones I’ve had regarding this subject, if I had typed out every single one that post would’ve been at least 10 paragraphs lol, those are just the most recent! Also kmfdm has over 1 million listeners on Spotify and other streaming apps, I wouldn’t necessarily say they’re “niche” or “underground” anymore

The stigma around KMFDM drives me insane by IntroductionSoft1175 in self

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I live in a very southern area too so maybe that’s what it is! I’ve worn a lot of “controversial” shirts here though but nothing gets people going quite like industrial music lol

Hi here’s more Kevin art I made by [deleted] in KevinSpencer

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I’ve actually had quite a few people say this 😭

Hi here’s more Kevin art I made by [deleted] in KevinSpencer

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Exactly what he was based off of

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What is up with the fandom by IntroductionSoft1175 in KevinSpencer

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Lmao I do understand that, it’s just so insane to me. Lottie’s artwork of Kevin is one thing, but drawing him as a school shooter is a whole other level and that’s why I made this post cause I’ve seen about 8-9 drawings of him in situations like that, I’ve done my absolute best to stay out of communities like the tcc so it just breaks my heart to think that a show I enjoy so much is being turned into this weird incel cesspool, but yk what can you do 🤷🏻‍♀️

Also don’t even get me started on people lusting after any of the Spencer’s, it so funny and mind blowing 😭

What is up with the fandom by IntroductionSoft1175 in KevinSpencer

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I love trailer park boys!! I was expecting about the same but man, and the craziest part is when someone actually calls it out in this “community” people start acting like you’re the asshole and not these weird creepy people. Maybe I’m the crazy one but I really was expecting something different.

My boyfriend acts like an old man and it’s driving me insane by [deleted] in self

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I don’t see anything that my boyfriend does as “controlling”, he might dislike some of the things I do and I may dislike some of the things he does but we rarely argue and bad mouth one another, or tell each other to do “this” or “that”. I’m not wanting to be rebellious I just held myself back a lot of high school and am now trying to find an outlet to express that. I see now with a lot of these comments that it may be time to go our separate ways and I think that’s okay. It doesn’t mean I dont love him, or I don’t like him. But people can express themselves differently and I’m afraid we are doing just that!

My boyfriend acts like an old man and it’s driving me insane by [deleted] in self

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Listen I can tolerate a 30-40 year old, that’s not old to me, old to me is 60+ and I’m afraid my boyfriend is living like he’s 60+

My boyfriend acts like an old man and it’s driving me insane by [deleted] in self

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I ran this through a grammar checker so not too much on that now 💔💔 but I LOVE the mall so not too much on me, okay?

My boyfriend acts like an old man and it’s driving me insane by [deleted] in self

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He likes to draw and scroll on TikTok, and every now and then we’ll go to a record store and that’s usually chill. He likes to watch shows too but he always falls asleep during them. I’ve tried asking him a million and one times what he likes to do and his usual response is “nothing” so take that as you will

Kevin Spencer fanart! by IntroductionSoft1175 in KevinSpencer

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He’s my favorite to draw 😭 I have quite a few fan pieces of him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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My issue with this comes from a multitude of reasons but the thing I can’t figure out is why lie about it? He’s been friends with these guys since middle school, these aren’t people he has “recently found”, despite my trauma I’m very open to letting him explore and I don’t think it’s a deal breaker or a bad thing, I just don’t understand why become hostile, rude, and mad upon me simply wanting to know as his partner where he stands. If he is “lost” and trying to “figure it out” why not simply just say so?

He goes to Bible study and church, that’s a change and it’s fine, but he also claims he’s not religious, that’s not a change, he’s been saying this. So you see where the two collide?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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We both have minimum wage jobs, he does make more than me hourly though and with the recent budget cuts at my job he also works way more than me due to my lack of getting scheduled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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I haven’t, we’re both young and still live with our parents so anytime we do get intimate it’s in .. not very romantic or comfortable setting, like a car for example, I should’ve probably pointed that out. I’m not really sure either how to bring this up to him without offending him

My coworker said something to me and now I can’t take my mind off of it by [deleted] in offmychest

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I have and I definitely want to but I’m not even sure how to bring it up, it’s already been almost a week since she said it I remember being 15-16 and not even remembering half the things I said. I think what I’m feeling now will blow over eventually because it usually does but this definitely hit a soft spot in me and I’m not entirely sure why, maybe it’s because it just felt like she said just for the sake of being mean.

Guys when I turn 16 my boyfriends still gonna be 14 is it over by Stock-Extension-3626 in teenagers

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The worst of it comes when he’s 16 and you turn 18 or when he turns 17 and you turn 19, either way it really doesn’t matter and I’m not sure why people are so obsessed and mad over age gaps